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Debi
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Re: Right of First Refusal

05/01/12 10:04 PM

It sounds like the ROFR is in play here. The next question is should you push it? Personally there are only so many hills I'm willing to die on. You have to figure out yours. Obviously you thought enough of this man to have children with him. Did you do that thinking that he could not take care of them as well as you would? If not then why would you be so insistent on interupting his time with them?

He is planning activities for them, not planning for them to sit at a babysitters house with nothing to do. IMO it's 5 weeks out of the year. Give him the opportunity to be a real parent and give your kids the opportunity to see a different way of living than being at home all day. I see it as a win/win and hardly worth the money or aggravation it will cause. I imagine that you hope at some point you can co-parent with your x and have the kids see their parents acting like adults. this would be a good place to start.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Right of First Refusal	momtothreekids	05/01/12 11:49 AM
Re: Right of First Refusal	Avaya	05/07/12 03:34 PM
Re: Right of First Refusal	Avaya	05/07/12 03:33 PM
Re: Right of First Refusal	elliesmom	05/03/12 10:12 PM
Re: Right of First Refusal	Buckeye	05/04/12 06:00 AM
Re: Right of First Refusal	Debi	05/01/12 10:04 PM
Re: Right of First Refusal	Buckeye	05/02/12 06:22 AM
Re: Right of First Refusal	Debi	05/03/12 07:45 PM
Re: Right of First Refusal	momtothreekids	05/04/12 07:58 AM
Re: Right of First Refusal	Debi	05/06/12 04:51 PM
Re: Right of First Refusal	Buckeye	05/07/12 06:21 AM
Re: Right of First Refusal	SRS	05/07/12 09:41 AM
Re: Right of First Refusal	elliesmom	05/07/12 02:47 PM
Re: Right of First Refusal	SRS	05/05/12 07:02 AM
Re: Right of First Refusal	elliesmom	05/04/12 09:05 AM
Re: Right of First Refusal	momtothreekids	05/02/12 07:51 AM
Re: Right of First Refusal	finz	05/11/12 05:44 AM
Re: Right of First Refusal	ssmom79	05/02/12 09:36 AM
Re: Right of First Refusal	annieo	05/02/12 10:14 AM
Re: Right of First Refusal	gr8Dad	05/01/12 02:55 PM
Re: Right of First Refusal	annieo	05/01/12 03:09 PM
Re: Right of First Refusal	finz	05/01/12 02:04 PM

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