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Annie7676
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Re: How would you handle this

05/02/12 05:50 PM

I dont know your situation but it appears he did make an attempt to contact them and probably did send you the email so you would know, for whatever the reasons are, bad or good.

Bottom line he is deployed which is no walk in the park. He, I assume is a US soldier putting himself out there for the reasons we hear but may not agree with.

How would they feel if that was their last email from him?

You could mention that he sent you an email and ask them did they respond? If they say no, its their business, do not know how old they are, but what were their reasons?

Your post mentions he is remarried, has a son from another marriage who he ignored, no excuse for that and not condoning his behavior at all.

Divorce, hurt, anger, sadness, etc...the residual effects of divorce and split families...at the end of the day all of us want to end the day without regrets.

I guess for me since I work with soldiers every day, it means something different to me. One never knows what could happen but I dont mean that too sound so gloom and doom as it does.

he reached out, maybe he hasn't in the past but that email shows he did. so maybe his conscious did do it who knows.

wish you luck on figuring this out.

my dad left when i was 4 yrs old and i had no contact for 50 years, nothing, no support, no birthdays, not a thing. He raised another family and now he is 86 yrs old and guess who he moved near.....I dont have much time left with him but i have the chance to know my Dad. at some point, the no regrets kicks in and he is trying.

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How would you handle this	AFreshStart	05/02/12 10:52 AM
Re: How would you handle this	Avaya	05/03/12 10:53 AM
Re: How would you handle this	Annie7676	05/02/12 05:50 PM
Re: How would you handle this	Runswithscissors	05/02/12 07:22 PM
Re: How would you handle this	AFreshStart	05/02/12 04:44 PM
Re: How would you handle this	ssmom79	05/02/12 05:31 PM
Re: How would you handle this	Runswithscissors	05/02/12 02:33 PM
Re: How would you handle this	ssmom79	05/02/12 11:01 AM
Re: How would you handle this	AFreshStart	05/02/12 11:09 AM
Re: How would you handle this	Reilly	05/02/12 11:03 AM
Re: How would you handle this	c_jane	05/02/12 10:56 AM
Re: How would you handle this	AFreshStart	05/02/12 11:03 AM
Re: How would you handle this	Avaya	05/03/12 10:54 AM
Re: How would you handle this	elliesmom	05/07/12 12:02 PM
Re: How would you handle this	AFreshStart	05/07/12 02:56 PM
Re: How would you handle this	gr8Dad	05/08/12 03:38 PM
Re: How would you handle this	ssmom79	05/02/12 11:10 AM
Re: How would you handle this	AFreshStart	05/02/12 11:16 AM
Re: How would you handle this	ssmom79	05/02/12 12:18 PM
Re: How would you handle this	Reilly	05/02/12 11:37 AM
Re: How would you handle this	LexieBelle	05/02/12 11:51 AM
Re: How would you handle this	AFreshStart	05/02/12 11:45 AM
Re: How would you handle this	Reilly	05/02/12 11:53 AM
Re: How would you handle this	LexieBelle	05/02/12 12:56 PM
Re: How would you handle this	Reilly	05/02/12 01:45 PM
Re: How would you handle this	LexieBelle	05/02/12 01:50 PM

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