Not for nuthin though? This site ENCOURAGED her to play the game she did!!! She got bagged, like no question at all, as a MASSIVE liar, even before I joined. She perpetuated a HUGE deception on all of you and then when she got caught and then this crap with the ex all started, you all held her hand and sang kumbaya and TAUGHT her she could get away with it.
What I find really astonishing? Is the people who defended her the hardest, who have now been basically totally embarassed, won't ADMIT that they were dead ass WRONG and they spent years bashing those who called it CORRECTLY, from the jump. Although they are quieter lately EXCEPT when they're using alternate personalities apparently.
Speaking from what I have seen personally of her ex, from what SHE provided DIRECTLY TO ME? The ex does NOT sound like that bad a guy. He was tired of getting jerked around by her and the games. It was funny, in one email? It's like he read posts from here because he said EXACTLY what folks said on here about her new husband, taking his place, his family was taking his family's place etc. It was like verbatim EXACTLY what many here thought. Of COURSE the guy was pissed. And in what I read at least? He didn't become a dick in speaking to her until SHE was a biotch to HIM.
And not for nothing? Tons of WOMEN can't hold down jobs/financially support THEIR kids either, some from this very site in fact, and that doesn't keep them from being good PARENTS. My cousin is a SAHD.. can't keep a job to save his life. My ex didn't work for how many years? Didn't stop him being a great dad to his other daughter at least. All this focus on "welll he didn't pay CHILD SUPPORT!!!!!!" as the do-all, end-all measurement of parenting "success" is fvckin' STUPID. Just sayin'.
Hopefully she pulls her head out of her ass and gets it together before she loses the kid entirely.
(oh and no, nothing's wrong in my personal life, in fact, it's going incredibly well.. boyfriend is great, dd just had THE best weekend at her dad's in ages, including spending half the weekend with JUST her dad, couldn't be more thrilled.. maybe it's that I know how well things CAN go if you're NOT a biotch, even if your ex is NOT "perfect", if you just TRY.. her attitude pisses me off)