english7
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Re: WTH!
07/03/12 08:10 PM
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M5, I'm sorry you have to go through this. When I was a kid, my dad would hit us with his belt. My brothers got it more often. I only was hit once by him and once my mother slapped my face when I was 17 for saying "no" to her.
We never once questioned their right to do it, as we always knew we had misbehaved to the point that we had it coming. The rules were clear. I can't remember any bruising afterward, but the sharp sting of the belt was enough to jolt our little brains into good behavior.
Of course there is a danger that some parents will let their anger reach a point of abuse, but it doesn't sound like that is the case with you or your DH.
If a child is behaving in a selfish manner, it is your responsibility to let her know. I regret the soft style of parenting that forbids such discipline. It's resulting in uncontrollable youngsters and rude, cocky teens who carry their self-centered, righteous, disrespectful personalities into adulthood.
That said, I shudder to read about a child who is abused, emotionally or physically. Some parents can't figure out where to draw the line.
I think Gr8's advice is good advice. (And I can't quite believe I said that.) I hope this whole situation has a positive outcome for all.
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