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Re: Need advice
      02/22/06 02:32 PM

I know I probably do get too worked up about the beer and the kids, but I think about what other people would think if they saw it.

---> So...tell them to mind their own freaking business!

I do get the short end of the straw here.....I have a 401K, he does not.

---> No...it is still marital property, no different that a regular savings account.

Now I can't even get anything on my own and he can. How is that fair?

---> Yeah it bites when you get screwed but that's the chance you take.

I'm stuck with his back taxes that he never wanted to file and pay.

---> So...if everything was in your name, why didn't they get filed and paid?

The house.....my dad's name is on it. Is half his and than half "ours" and that's what I have to split with him?

---> It depends. What was your father's contribution...was he strictly a co-signer on the loan; did he provide money for the down payment and if so, was it a "gift" or a "loan" and if it was a loan, what were the expections on repayment?

I don't want to "screw him over", but I do feel that I should get something for everything that I've gone through.

---> In other words, you want to be compensated for making a bad choice?

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* Need advice tiredandfedup 02/21/06 02:58 PM
. * * Re: Need advice stacey30   03/04/06 11:33 AM
. * * Re: Need advice Gecko   02/22/06 12:29 PM
. * * Re: Need advice tiredandfedup   02/22/06 01:16 PM
. * * Re: Need advice MamaKitty   02/22/06 04:08 PM
. * * Re: Need advice Gecko   02/22/06 02:34 PM
. * * Re: Need advice Debbie_L   02/23/06 04:45 PM
. * * Re: Need advice tiredandfedup   02/22/06 03:21 PM
. * * Re: Need advice Gecko   02/22/06 06:57 PM
. * * Re: Need advice Gecko   02/22/06 02:32 PM
. * * Re: Need advice almostheaven   02/22/06 07:30 PM
. * * To AlmostHeaven Gecko   02/23/06 12:22 AM
. * * It's the "during the marriage" part... almostheaven   02/23/06 12:17 PM
. * * Re: It's the "during the marriage" part... Gecko   03/06/06 09:52 PM
. * * About the house... almostheaven   02/22/06 01:07 PM
. * * Re: Need advice Rebecca5   02/21/06 09:47 PM
. * * Re: Need advice tiredandfedup   02/22/06 08:09 AM
. * * Re: Need advice loril   03/27/06 10:21 AM
. * * Make your point without words... almostheaven   03/27/06 11:10 AM
. * * Re: Make your point without words... loril   03/27/06 11:31 AM
. * * Re: Make your point without words... Buckeye   03/27/06 11:55 AM
. * * Re: Make your point without words... loril   03/27/06 01:14 PM
. * * Re: Make your point without words... almostheaven   03/27/06 04:21 PM
. * * Re: Make your point without words... loril   03/28/06 06:18 AM
. * * Pay dearly??? almostheaven   03/28/06 07:44 AM
. * * Re: Make your point without words... Buckeye   03/27/06 07:38 PM
. * * Re: Need advice Mariah   03/10/06 10:51 AM
. * * Re: Need advice MamaKitty   03/10/06 06:37 PM
. * * Re: Need advice Loretta   02/21/06 05:24 PM
. * * Re: Need advice MamaKitty   02/21/06 03:25 PM

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