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KDogg
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Reged: 01/02/05
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Loc: West Virginia

Re: Update from When To Call It Quits

01/25/05 09:25 AM

Thanks for the reply, Onyx. Yes, I know trust can return so long as there is a major effort, as we've been down this road before. This is the 7th or 8th time I've caught her getting with other guys and the third time that we've faced possible seperation and divorce.

As far as a last chance goes, how many "last chances" are allowed in a marriage? The last time we faced this issue was when she brought in the neighbor guy she was seeing, when she was ready to call it quits herself and go with him. I gave her the ultimatum then, to either choose him or choose me. She was prepared to give me custody of the kids, but then I made her think about her medical appointments, medications, and all the other things she was into and made her realize that even if she just lived a building or two over that she would not be coming in any time she pleased and that I wouldn't be running her to all her appointments or paying for her meds. After a few minutes she decided to stick with me, and I told her that if it ever happened again I would not put up with it and get a divorce.

I have been giving things a lot of thought the last few days, especially concerning the kids because I want their lives disrupted as little as possible. The problem is, through all the soul-searching I find that I still love her as the mother of my children, but the love as far as a relationship and marriage is concerned no longer exists. It's more like a marriage of convenience now...

So, I guess I will ride it out a bit longer and see what happens...

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KDogg

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Update from When To Call It Quits	KDogg	01/22/05 10:47 PM
Re: Update from When To Call It Quits	aussie928	01/23/05 09:25 AM
Re: Update from When To Call It Quits	KDogg	01/25/05 09:37 AM
Re: Update from When To Call It Quits	aussie928	01/25/05 11:04 AM
Re: Update from When To Call It Quits	KDogg	01/26/05 12:21 PM
Re: Update from When To Call It Quits	KDogg	01/27/05 08:56 AM
Re: Update from When To Call It Quits	daphyne	01/27/05 08:37 PM
Re: Update from When To Call It Quits	KDogg	01/28/05 07:40 AM
Re: Update from When To Call It Quits	Onyx	01/23/05 05:54 AM
Re: Update from When To Call It Quits	KDogg	01/25/05 09:25 AM
Re: Update from When To Call It Quits	sparky	01/25/05 09:36 AM
Re: Update from When To Call It Quits	KDogg	01/28/05 07:45 AM

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