Well, ladies and gentlemen it is only by accident that found this forum, because i too needed advice, but to my surprise my soon to be (ex), Yes the person you see above with the yee ha, was here with here own outlook on the truth.
I am not here looking for sympathy nor do i want it, i have made some mistake with this woman and this woman has also made some mistake, but since i see her here bad mouthing me, she still does not get it@@ . I have custody of our 9 year old son, and i requested through my parents to send him to SC, because i was financially unable to. Main reasons being i have rent (525$) ,Car (338$) Insurance (275$-Full coverage) School (Roughly 200 mo for expenses), Bills totalling more than 600$ a month. I do not have my esteemed wife luxury of having free government housing or the sympathy of a society who think women are the weaker sex. I made the decision based on what was best for my son. Some how she figured becuase i sent him to my moms, i don't love him. .....i can never understand that, but hey that why we are on the divorce road. my son is being taken care of in ways that i could not afford to at this time, however all she can see is more money. They are with my parents. I won't even bring myself to stoop so low as to be-little my ex, because i will always love her and i wish this wasn't happening, but there are two sides to every coin, and this is mine. The problems that i am facing are some of my own, but also from a direct result of Ex, i am a man so i will take responsibilities for me and drive on, but my Ex seem bent on revenge at any cost to a bright 9 year old. Whatever she throw at me is ok, but there is a 9, soon to be 10 year old in South Carolina who still does not know what going on......and in the mist of all of this, his mother ups and jump the country to get away from a marriage she help break down. no one was beating her, no one was threatening her, he just took everthing to the extrememe and cause more problems than help. So, that leads us here, asking strange people what we should have done and and what we should do, but with all do respect .....something are mean to stay in your house, and once husband and wives understand that there has to be equality in a marriage as well as compromise and tolerance that it will always end up in Divorce. So, to sweetlyspoiled, i say i still love you and may God Make you a wiser person (Rank does not make you Wise). To you people who cared enough to read this i thank you also, because it is a great start to this healing process.