
MamaKitty
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Reged: 01/30/06
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Loc: California
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Re: Something weird?
03/19/06 12:10 AM
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The real problem isn't so much trying to change him- I figured that one out a long time ago.
It's that I always seem to get thrown off balance by it. I should be used to it by not, but I'm not. And as for the why....? Who knows. He lies about absolutely stupid things, and then half the time blames it on me and says he had to lie because he didn't want to get in trouble. Which is crazy, because he wouldn't have gotten in trouble... except that now I'll be irritated at him for lying.
Yes, there's definitely something wrong with his head, because once he gets lying and I tell him the truth, what really happened, he always gets frustrated and says he's confused.
But there are times when I know he's flat-out lying on purpose, like when he's been smoking pot and I find it. Boy, you should hear those lies..... and that ends up being my fault too, somehow.
I really can't afford right now to just gloss over it, because I need to keep things fresh in my mind about why I want to push this divorce through......and then hopefully when it's over, I can start just ignoring it.
Sucks to have an ex with a personality disorder, hmmm? What other kinds of things does your ex do?
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