MamaKitty
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Re: Something weird?
03/19/06 03:24 PM
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I do have to say it was helpful when I kicked him out a couple of years ago... that he kicked our front gate down, and then started yelling in the front yard that my girlfriend (Ree) and I were in a conspiracy with George Bush... (which the neighbors all saw)... and then chased down neighbors and told them I was having wild parties during the days.... and then came back later and had to be escorted out by a sherrif (we're in the county)... and he came back again and was cut off before coming back into the yard by the sherrif again...... my girlfriend got a dose of what I'd been dealing with... especially when the bratties started having nightmares every night because when he'd taken them for visitation he told them that their 'Aunt Ree' (actually their godmother) was trying to steal the house away from Daddy, and she was trying to steal them, too.
This time, he's gone to all the neihgbors and given them his new address and phone # (which I still don't have), and told them and their kids something pretty nasty about me, and told them to call him if they saw anything suspicious. Almost a year after he got kicked out I found out that it'd been circling among the neighbor kids that I had killed someone and gone to jail...!!
Since on Friday he got mad and said I should marry Ree, M and L, right after he said he wanted to get together, and last week told me I was a hypocritical money hungry b#tch who was just trying to bleed him dry although he hasn't contributed towards the bratties living expenses since December, and I haven't once asked him to, (I fully believe NCPs should provide CS of some amount at least until the divorce is over) I have a feeling it doesn't matter any more to me what people who only see his 'Mr Clean' image think of me refusing to let him come back.
I'll take all the blame if I have to. The sick part is that the BUMD is still telling the bratties I'm planning on marrying someone, while I've bit my tongue around them because even if their dad just did/said some unforgiveable cr@p, our kid don't need to hear it any more.
But, yeah- I'm planning on marrying my girfriend (even though she lives with her boyfriend in Sacramento.. and he (L) is the second person I'm always accused of supposedly getting married to.
The BUMD is mostly NPD I think, but with the comorbidity rate of BPD, it's likely he has both.... and among the BPD the only trait he didn't have with the suicide/cutting thing. But now I've realized his 'cutting' might have been different- namely scratching himself so hard he drew blood. He's so freaky about it (says everyone does it) that it would seem to be the same reasons as a cutter... that they feel dead, uncomfortable in their own skin, and anything- cutting, scratching, bulemia and anorexia will be both controlling and relieving, as it's been proven that BPD/NPDs have a hard time really feeling anything at all.
JMO
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