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Re: Something weird?
      03/20/06 02:42 PM

I've experienced it too. My ex has bpd also. What a nightmare. The rages were unbearable. He's still stalking me too, several months after I broke up with him. He changes from love to hate, and back again within 10 minutes or less sometimes. He has keyed my car, broken the railing on my balcony (trying to climb up it about a month after our breakup - scary), he wakes me up at 1 in the morning throwing stuff at my window because he wants to "talk" to me "just for a minute". I could go on and on. These people seriously spiral out of control when you try to break up with them. He stopped going to his job and lost that job. He talks about wanting to die all the time. He is a total mess. He cannot see that it's just a breakup - not the end of the world. I can't help or heal him. He never seeks out the real help that he needs - unfortunately, he just turns to illegal drugs and alcohol to make himself feel better (or so he thinks). He lied about that too. I didn't even find out about the cocaine until a couple years into our relationship.

I better sign off now, or I will write a novel. I'll just say, to anyone who is living with a person with a serious personality disorder, or has ever done so, you have my sympathy and understanding.

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* Something weird? MamaKitty 03/15/06 01:49 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? MamaKitty   03/17/06 09:30 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? Rebecca5   03/17/06 09:43 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? MamaKitty   03/18/06 12:51 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? Rebecca5   03/18/06 01:01 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? getnadivorce   03/18/06 08:00 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? Rebecca5   03/18/06 08:05 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? MamaKitty   03/19/06 12:10 AM
. * * Re: Something weird? Rebecca5   03/19/06 09:50 AM
. * * Re: Something weird? Buckeye   03/19/06 05:27 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? Rebecca5   03/20/06 02:55 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? MamaKitty   03/19/06 11:43 AM
. * * Re: Something weird? Debbie_L   03/20/06 02:42 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? MamaKitty   03/20/06 08:06 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? Rebecca5   03/20/06 03:00 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? MamaKitty   03/20/06 04:11 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? Rebecca5   03/21/06 10:35 AM
. * * Re: Something weird? MamaKitty   03/21/06 01:55 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? Rebecca5   03/21/06 02:06 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? MamaKitty   03/21/06 02:33 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? Rebecca5   03/21/06 04:53 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? Debbie_L   03/22/06 02:39 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? MamaKitty   03/22/06 02:45 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? Rebecca5   03/19/06 12:03 PM
. * * Re: Something weird? MamaKitty   03/19/06 03:24 PM

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