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Northstar77
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Re: Oh and...

03/25/06 12:28 PM

I,ve had it happen to me too. She hit me a lot of times.she left marks too. I never made a police report because I didn't want her to go to jail because I would have probably been the one who would have to bail her out. People don't think men can be abused that is not true,I was also verbally abused almost constantly by her. She was a real manipulator,she would use religious tactics,she was involved in this inner healing stuff at her church and when we would have an argument I would try to explain to her how her words and actions affected me and she would listen to my whole story interrupting at will and when I was done she would then say"in a soft voice.. Do you think maybe the reason you,re so upset with me is because of your childhood?" at first I used to buy this stuff and think that I was all messed up emotionally and we would end the disagreement with her sitting there as proud and arrogant as a peacock and saying..."You see? you have alot of healing you need and issues that are not dealt with?" so I would walk away feeling like it was all my fault. I would also stuff all of my anger because what else could I do with it?After all she was right and I was wrong. Or she would say stuff like"God told me to tell you this" I would then think to myself well how can I argue with God? This went on for so long finally I didn't buy into that crap anymore and woke up,that's when she started leaving me and separating from me because she lost the control over me.She now lives in her kids condo and we are in the middle of a divorce. She is divorcing me and trying to get all she can and walk away not being responsible for any of it. Thank God we have no kids together. We were married 7 years.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Spousal abuse	flyers13	02/03/06 09:55 PM
Probably not...	almostheaven	02/04/06 09:01 AM
Oh and...	almostheaven	02/04/06 09:03 AM
Re: Oh and...	Northstar77	03/25/06 12:28 PM
It doesn't take a gender to abuse...	almostheaven	03/25/06 08:10 PM
Re: It doesn't take a gender to abuse...	MamaKitty	03/25/06 09:45 PM

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