Hello to all, I have been watching this site for awhile, just have a couple questions I hope someone can help me with. I am in Michigan, and filed for divorce 5 weeks ago. Hubby still lives in house, with no intentions of leaving anytime soon. We already decided I am keeping the house, already been to court to take care of the child support/visitation issues. pretty much already decided on all the property also, with him getting half of my 401K also. My issue is he will not stop bugging me for sex. I told him I wanted to do this as easily as possible, and want us to get along, and we have been except for this issue. I have no intentions of having sex with him, he just won't stop harrassing me, literally. Touching, kissing on me, etc, etc. It is soo stressful. The question is this, someone told me that in Michigan, if you have sex anytime after you file divorce, it makes the divorce null and void, you lose all your money and have to refile. I am thinking he knows this and thats why he is so desperate, my sister thinks he is just trying to get me pregnant. I never heard of anything so ridiculous as that, but am now concerned that he is going to tell the judge we have been having sex all along, and it will turn into a he-said/she-said mess. I would believe that if this is true, his lawyer let him know this, cause his lawyer is being very dirty about things. Telling him to get a paternity test on our 8yr old who he put his name on her birth certificate, we all know she isn't his, just so he wouldn't have to pay child support!!! Hubby refused, said he would never hurt his kids like that, and I have to pay him child support anyways. Lawyer also told him to absolutely not leave the house, he would give up all rights to his kids, even though we have joint legal physical custody.
sorry for the book, just trying to stay a step ahead of him and trying to figure out if this sex thing is true and thats why he won't stop molesting me.
Thanks in advance for any help, I haven't been able to get ahold of my lawyer, she is at a seminar.