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Mom2Girls
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Reged: 06/14/05
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He still is Playing games

06/20/05 01:37 PM

Pardon my venting here..

My X had visitation this past weekend and he asked the girls if they would like to travel with him to Canada in 2 weeks. My daughter's said that when he 1st asked they said they would "think about it"

Up in the tree-house in his back yard they sat alone and our 13 yr old asked our 10 yr old if she wanted to go and they said they both didnt. The oldest asked her little sis how they should handle it and together they decided to just tell their dad no.

Mean while I have no idea about any of this. We dont even have a visitation order, just a verbal between all the lawyers and my Ex and I that I would let him have EOW.

When they were asked again the girls said no, he kept pushing the topic...trying (in the words of our 13 yr old) to "Sweeten the deal and hook them in".

When he came here Sunday at 8pm to drop off the kids I was startled to see him half way between his car and my front door looking awful comfortable in the driveway (I had to remind myself he didnt actually live here). I stayed inside, when the kids came in my oldest rolled her eyes and said "Gosh he doesnt let up." I had no idea what she was about to tell me.

Needless to say I am not happy. For starters why is he asking the kids about the vacation and not asking ME?

Then when they told him I am having a huge BBQ/Birthday party for our little one and that I have 30 something guests invited that said he waived his hands to dismiss that as trivial and said "Dont worry about that...uncle so and so will be going to Canada with us, you will have so much fun."

Then he instructed the kids to call him within 2 days with a responce, not from ME but from the KIDS...as if they would see the light and want to go.

With the history here the last thing I want is him taking them to another country. He pushed my daughter to take French last yr and she didnt want to and he has family all over Quebec...so there is some paranoid worrys he wouldnt return them.

I really am insulted that even after he lost custody, and after all the yrs of never saying yes to anything I asked and all the yrs I had to provide 30 days writen (noterised) notifications of all my vacation plans. I cant believe he has the nerve to think it is that easy for him even with no court ordered visitation (because he wont agree with me on ANY TERMS to acheve a visitation order and wants a trial over it).

Ugghhh...

Thanks for listening to me rattle off today...I cant get over the B alls on this guy...

Mom of 2 Girls

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
He still is Playing games	Mom2Girls	06/20/05 01:37 PM
Re: He still is Playing games	MaryWhoCares	06/20/05 05:11 PM
Momof2Girls... Just tell him	YahYah	06/20/05 03:36 PM
He hasnt even asked ME... LOL..thats the kicker!	Mom2Girls	06/20/05 04:34 PM
Re: He hasnt even asked ME... LOL..thats the kicker!	MaryWhoCares	06/20/05 05:15 PM
Re: He hasnt even asked ME... LOL..thats the kicker!	KaysMom	06/21/05 01:00 PM
I would be nervous, too.	Dee78	06/20/05 02:54 PM

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