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Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed!
      02/03/07 08:20 AM

I'm a SAHM who is 38 years old and having my fifth child. The last three by my husband now. We've been married for 6 1/2 years. He's in the Military and from the very beginning it's been turbulent. I've done any and everything to fix this marriage...we've even been on Dr. Phil for it. There's been constant lying, decieving, manipulation, terrible anger, some violence, screaming (a drill sergeant in the face), and definently I believe infidelity. I've been psychologically abused for this entire marriage and it's embarrassing (I always thought of myself as strong woman). Every councelor that we've seen has told him he was abusive. I somewhat believe that my husband loves me but he can't change the bad that's in him. I'm his fourth wife and he's had two bankrupts; one before me and one after. He's stolen, he cheats the military and he's extremely irresponsible as a civilian. He still continues to repeat hisory ruining any chance of owning a house or being financially stable. The only reason I've been a SAHM is because of the moving and then him leaving and traveling for the past 3 1/2 years. Every time I talked about getting a job he definently put the seed in my head that it wouldn't be worth it. Now here I am, finally coming to the conclusion that I'm going to end up in a hospital if I continue this marriage. We almost went through a divorce less then a year ago but we didn't. I moved to Indiana from Ohio so that he'd be in one place and we would be able to work on this marriage. He is now stationed in Texas very close to retiring but I don't love him anymore and I want out. If anyone knows of any help that's out there for a mother of 5, four of which are still being raised ( one still not born) please let me know. I'm really scared and I want to do what's best for my children. Please don't judge me. Please help if you can. Thank you everone. [color:blue] [/color] [color:blue] [/color]

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* Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew 02/03/07 08:20 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 08:36 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:43 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 09:53 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 10:29 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Miranda   02/05/07 01:51 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 10:51 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:42 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:48 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/03/07 02:00 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 10:19 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/04/07 11:32 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 12:30 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 01:45 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! overcoming_evil   02/11/07 01:13 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/13/07 10:25 PM
. * * But but but... almostheaven   02/14/07 08:44 AM
. * * Re: But but but... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:32 AM
. * * Re: But but but... Olivia000102   02/14/07 01:42 PM
. * * Olivia... almostheaven   02/14/07 09:39 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... preemiemom   02/14/07 09:46 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... almostheaven   02/14/07 09:51 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:52 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/12/07 08:34 AM
. * * Whoa! almostheaven   02/11/07 07:02 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 08:27 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 08:51 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:18 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:04 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:11 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:16 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:41 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:45 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:59 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:04 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 09:15 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! Loretta   02/15/07 08:40 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/16/07 02:27 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:20 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:25 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! preemiemom   02/12/07 10:39 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:09 PM
. * * AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/12/07 07:41 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/12/07 10:10 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 08:51 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 09:01 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 09:59 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 04:36 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification zepdiva   02/13/07 06:30 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 06:37 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 07:12 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 07:16 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification zepdiva   02/14/07 11:50 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification Olivia000102   02/14/07 01:34 PM
. * * Shooooooooooo preemiemom   02/14/07 11:56 AM
. * * LOL almostheaven   02/14/07 09:38 PM
. * * Re: LOL Miranda   02/15/07 07:39 AM
. * * Re: LOL kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:52 AM
. * * Re: LOL Miranda   02/15/07 08:12 AM
. * * You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:29 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:15 AM
. * * "defending myself"... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:20 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/15/07 09:38 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:21 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/15/07 08:39 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Runswithscissors   02/15/07 10:09 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/16/07 12:03 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Redlegg   02/16/07 02:36 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:41 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:06 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:14 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Miranda   02/15/07 09:10 AM
. * * ROFLMFAO!... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:15 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:16 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 05:12 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:01 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 07:01 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:10 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 07:25 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:48 PM
. * * Troll almostheaven   02/15/07 08:15 PM
. * * Re: Troll kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:26 PM
. * * Re: Troll almostheaven   02/16/07 02:36 PM
. * * Re: Troll preemiemom   02/15/07 09:16 PM
. * * Thanks... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:40 PM
. * * Re: Troll kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:32 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 08:12 PM
. * * No way Jose... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:16 PM
. * * "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:26 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... Karen1   02/15/07 07:33 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:48 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... Karen1   02/15/07 08:20 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:52 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... zepdiva   02/16/07 04:07 PM
. * * Hey troll... almostheaven   02/16/07 04:28 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... zepdiva   02/16/07 04:39 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/16/07 05:07 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... Karen1   02/16/07 05:39 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/17/07 02:31 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... Karen1   02/17/07 03:21 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/17/07 05:54 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... zepdiva   02/16/07 05:38 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:53 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:05 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:16 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:36 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:04 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:18 PM
. * * Man! almostheaven   02/16/07 02:25 PM
. * * OK... preemiemom   02/15/07 09:46 AM
. * * Re: OK... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:23 AM
. * * Re: OK... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:46 PM
. * * Hooray!... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:18 AM
. * * Re: Hooray!... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:28 AM
. * * Wow! almostheaven   02/15/07 06:49 PM
. * * Re: Hooray!... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:26 AM
. * * Re: Hooray!... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:50 PM
. * * Watch it Spring... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:41 AM
. * * Re: Watch it Spring... Spring   02/15/07 08:43 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... preemiemom   02/15/07 08:37 AM
. * * Oh I dunno... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:42 AM
. * * I'm LMAO! zepdiva   02/15/07 05:53 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! almostheaven   02/15/07 07:02 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! almostheaven   02/15/07 06:54 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:03 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification kemahapalew   02/13/07 10:02 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/14/07 08:41 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification Gecko   02/13/07 10:28 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification kemahapalew   02/14/07 04:51 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:37 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:54 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 06:06 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 06:11 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 09:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 12:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! matart1   02/12/07 02:02 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 03:49 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! preemiemom   02/12/07 01:38 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 04:20 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 03:40 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:29 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/04/07 05:29 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 09:11 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:38 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:32 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:32 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/04/07 01:59 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 02:41 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 03:48 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 03:58 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 04:01 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 04:12 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 04:49 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 04:53 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! TGSM   02/04/07 08:43 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/03/07 08:11 PM

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