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I don't get it
      07/11/05 08:40 PM

I have been reading everyone's stories for a little over a month now and trying to help with advice for the past week, and I don't get it!! It's the same story, you love someone with your whole heart and soul and they turn out to be your worse enemy. They hurt you more than anyone would or could. I go to a support group and I talk to co-workers that have been divorce and it's the same. The other spouse leaves for another woman/man. What happened to the vows, to "till death do us part"? It doesn't matter if you have been married for 2 years or 50. I love my husband with my whole heart and soul and he left for someone else. I don't know that he could be lucky enough to get the love I gave him. And now, like everyone else, I don't know him. How is it the guy I spent the last 14 years with, the one I wanted to grow old with and dream with is now someone else? I don't get it. In November he was in love with me by January he became a different person. I don't understand how this happens so often. And I don't understand why it happens so often.
Kim

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* I don't get it kav 07/11/05 08:40 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it alabama   07/15/05 10:19 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/15/05 11:22 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it alabama   07/15/05 11:52 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it NancyD   07/18/05 09:14 AM
. * * Re: NancyD alabama   07/18/05 03:35 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it lostandalone   07/16/05 09:07 PM
. * * Re: lostandalone imploding alabama   07/17/05 08:07 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/16/05 09:20 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it lostandalone   07/16/05 10:12 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/16/05 10:23 PM
. * * To those who had long term marriage Annie7676   07/15/05 03:58 PM
. * * Re: To those who had long term marriage lostandalone   07/15/05 07:17 PM
. * * Re: To those who had long term marriage Lyn   07/15/05 08:47 PM
. * * Re: To Lost and Alone Annie7676   07/15/05 08:45 PM
. * * Re: To those who had long term marriage kav   07/15/05 07:42 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 11:28 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 11:31 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 11:35 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 11:40 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 11:53 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/15/05 12:04 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:11 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 12:14 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:23 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 12:38 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:45 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 12:08 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:16 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 12:19 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:29 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 12:34 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:39 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 12:43 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:47 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 12:53 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 01:00 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Lyn   07/15/05 09:18 PM
. * * Re: lostandalone alabama   07/15/05 10:07 PM
. * * Re: lostandalone Karen1   07/15/05 11:40 PM
. * * Re: lostandalone alabama   07/16/05 12:04 AM
. * * Re: lostandalone lostandalone   07/15/05 11:01 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 01:10 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 01:21 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 01:40 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 01:49 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 01:58 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 02:04 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/16/05 12:23 AM
. * * Re: more to Karen1 alabama   07/16/05 08:54 AM
. * * Re: to Karen1 alabama   07/16/05 08:41 AM
. * * Re: to Karen1 Karen1   07/16/05 02:10 PM
. * * Re:getting the h*ll out of town alabama   07/17/05 09:16 AM
. * * Re:getting the h*ll out of town Karen1   07/17/05 05:54 PM
. * * Re:getting the h*ll out of town alabama   07/18/05 07:40 AM
. * * Re:getting the h*ll out of town Karen1   07/18/05 11:03 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 02:08 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Tabitha   07/12/05 10:48 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it tiredofit   07/12/05 12:03 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/12/05 06:25 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it jsmom   07/16/05 12:17 AM
. * * Re: jsmom alabama   07/16/05 09:28 AM
. * * Re: jsmom jsmom   07/16/05 02:49 PM
. * * Re: jsmom alabama   07/18/05 03:48 PM
. * * Re: jsmom jsmom   07/19/05 12:59 AM
. * * Re: jsmom CaptainJim   07/18/05 04:07 PM
. * * Re: jsmom jsmom   07/19/05 12:53 AM
. * * Re: jsmom CaptainJim   07/19/05 07:22 AM
. * * Re: jsmom meltdown alabama   07/17/05 09:19 AM
. * * Re: jsmom meltdown jsmom   07/18/05 12:50 PM
. * * Re: jsmom meltdown alabama   07/18/05 03:16 PM
. * * Re: jsmom Karen1   07/16/05 02:20 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Zeek   07/12/05 12:26 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Lyn   07/12/05 07:02 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it Ryan   07/11/05 09:17 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/11/05 09:35 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Ryan   07/11/05 10:36 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it overtherainbow   07/11/05 09:33 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/12/05 06:29 PM

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