
PerryP
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Re: At a Crossroad
04/12/07 12:26 AM
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Thanks for the reply,
I totally agree and already have put my childrens life absolutely first,and she has as well, yet she also wants to be happy, and in her defense she has given me a fair amount of warning.
As I stated I am not verygood at showing emotion and being affectionate, something she craves very much, and I/we are working on the problem, the counselor we are seeing is in my opinion very good and we have made strides in the past under her supervision.
Like I said though, after a period where I felt like I was the only person showing the initiative, I became discouraged and kind of went back to my normal way of things,not to mention we stopped seeing the counselor mainly because of finiancial reasons, (she was also privately seeing a psychologist) so it added up.
We have also got wind of some very discouraging news on my side of the family, BOTH my sister and brother will be filing for divorces. It's been a harsh April to say the least and my wife was very close to my sister, consequently she is leaving my bor-in -law for the exact reason...she is not in love with him any more.
I feel terrible for my brother in law...hes a great guy, and my wife has stated she is very distraught over this and is consumed by it as of now.
We had a good day today anyway, my parents had the boys overnight, and I spent time one on one with my wife, and we shared some laughs, and breakfast.
I'll do whatever it takes on my end to keep my wife and kids.
Take care...I'll be around,
Perry
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