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I can't stand it!
      04/13/07 06:48 PM

This is the hardest thing I have ever gone through. Last night he said we would talk totaday, so far no call. I have not called him. How long do I wait? A day, 3 days, a week??? I told him last night that I have scheduled a counseling appoitment and asked him to join me next week. All he said was, can I think about it. At this point I don't think there is someone else. He said this has been building for a long time. His biggest problem with me is that he says I never really gave him the time of day, which is in part true. I stayed in one room and he stayed in the other room because I smoked and he quit in Oct. My snoring was also a huge problem. I checked into the surgery a few years ago and then dropped it thinking it was his problem not mine. He spent many restless nights nudging me and what have you until one of finally went to the couch. Our relationship as a whole was OK. We did many things together, traveled to far away places, ate out regularly, and did weekend activities. Here is my problem....many people have said to make no contact. I feel no contact shows that I do not care. He is a very needy man, in that he requires attention. I feel like the more days that pass the less likely we are to reconnect. Is this true? Any sucess stories

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* I can't stand it! verysad 04/13/07 06:48 PM
. * * Re: I can't stand it! changes   04/27/07 09:08 AM
. * * Re: I can't stand it! Curmudgeon   04/14/07 10:01 AM
. * * Re: I can't stand it! Avaya   04/26/07 04:34 PM
. * * Re: I can't stand it! agui667   04/26/07 08:57 PM

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