
mariejones
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04/13/07 11:40 PM
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FOR SOMEONE WHO CAN GIVE A LITTLE FREE ADVICE CERTAINLY WOULD BE GREAT. I'M A MARRIED WOMAN OF 7 YEARS AND ALL 7 YEARS HAVE BEEN UP AND DOWN. THIS IS MY SECOND MARRIAGE AND I DO HAVE A CHILD FROM A PREVIOUS MARRIAGE. I PRESENTLY DO NOT WORK AND MY CHILD WILL GRADUATE IN MAY. IN THE MEANTIME, I DO JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING IN THE HOUSEHOLD AND HESITATE TO ASK FOR HELP BECAUSE MY HUSBAND TELLS ME TO GET MY DAUGHTER TO HELP. NOT A ONCE OR MAYBE ONCE HAS HE LIFTED A FINGER TO EITHER WASH LAUNDRY, CLEAN KITCHEN, SWEEP, MOP, MOW, COOK ON HIS FREE WHEEL. I FEEL MY HANDS ARE TIED BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE A JOB RIGHT NOW AND HERE LATELY SPENDING MORE TIME WITH MY DAUGHTER BECAUSE OF HER LAST YEAR IN SCHOOL. THE GOOD THING IS SHE PLANS ON GOING TO COLLEGE. ONCE I GET HER STEERED IN THE DIRECTION THEN I CAN WORK ON ME. IN THE PAST, MY COUNSELOR MENTION TO ME THAT BOTH MY HUSBAND AND I ARE TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE. I HAVE THE POTENTIAL TO WANT THINGS AND MY HUSBAND IS HAPPY WITH WHAT HE HAS. I'M NOT ASKING FOR EXPENSIVE THINGS LIKE FOR INSTANCE. THE HOUSE WE LIVE IN ISN'T COMPLETE IT LACKS ABOUT 15% TO BE COMPLETE AND IT'S BEEN A DEAD SUBJECT SINCE HE HAD A HORSE ACCIDENT 8 YEARS AGO! HE HAD INJURED ONE ARM, WHICH IS ABOUT 90% BETTER THEN IT WAS 8 YEARS AGO. BUT IT DOESN'T EVEN OCCUR FOR HIM TO FINISH. HE'S BOUGHT UNNECESSARY THINGS IN THE PAST BUT YET HIS COMMENTS ARE THEY WILL HELP HIM TO MAKE MONEY. I TELL HIM ALL THE TIME HE HAS HIS PRIORITY ALL BACKWARDS. I'M SO STRESSED OUT I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT I WANT IN LIFE. I CAN'T LOSE ANY WEIGHT I'M 25 POUNDS OVERWEIGHT, I CAN'T WORK BECAUSE THINGS GET IN THE WAY SO NO JOB WILL ALLOW FOR ME TO TAKE OFF SO AGAIN THIS IS WHY I HAVE TO HOLD OFF A LITTLE LONGER. TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK I WILL BE HEADED FOR ONCE MY CHILD GRADUATES AND IT'S JUST ME AND HIM?
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