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Knowing when its time to go
      07/25/07 12:29 PM

I've been married for almost 5 years. My wife and i have been togeather since '97. Over the years we've broken up, and made up numerous times. I honestly believe it is time for me to leave now.

I havent cheated on her, nor she on me. The problem is that I'm positive that I am no longer in love with her. And the more i think about it, i'm not sure if i ever was. i keep wishing that i could make myself feel for her what she feels for me. i've tried. i cant.

we have no children, and i'm inclined to leave everything in the house to her. i just want to stop feeling like a liar, a fake, and a failure. the worst part of this is that she is the kindest, sweetest, most honest and giving person that i've ever meet. but for the life of me i just cant make myself be 'in love' with her.

I havent told her this for a couple of reasons. 1) she's in her last quarter of school to obtain her masters degree. i dont want to do anything to jeoperdise that. 2) i do not want to hurt her.

i guess i'm writing this to get some feedback on how to handle this situation, and see if anyone else is going through something like this.

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* Knowing when its time to go boynamedsioux 07/25/07 12:29 PM
. * * Re: Knowing when its time to go almostheaven   07/25/07 06:28 PM
. * * Re: Knowing when its time to go Sherron   07/25/07 10:22 PM
. * * Re: Knowing when its time to go boynamedsioux   07/26/07 07:18 AM
. * * Re: Knowing when its time to go ELEMO2001   07/25/07 01:21 PM
. * * Re: Knowing when its time to go boynamedsioux   07/25/07 01:41 PM
. * * Re: Knowing when its time to go ELEMO2001   07/25/07 02:35 PM

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