
boynamedsioux
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Knowing when its time to go
07/25/07 12:29 PM
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I've been married for almost 5 years. My wife and i have been togeather since '97. Over the years we've broken up, and made up numerous times. I honestly believe it is time for me to leave now.
I havent cheated on her, nor she on me. The problem is that I'm positive that I am no longer in love with her. And the more i think about it, i'm not sure if i ever was. i keep wishing that i could make myself feel for her what she feels for me. i've tried. i cant.
we have no children, and i'm inclined to leave everything in the house to her. i just want to stop feeling like a liar, a fake, and a failure. the worst part of this is that she is the kindest, sweetest, most honest and giving person that i've ever meet. but for the life of me i just cant make myself be 'in love' with her.
I havent told her this for a couple of reasons. 1) she's in her last quarter of school to obtain her masters degree. i dont want to do anything to jeoperdise that. 2) i do not want to hurt her.
i guess i'm writing this to get some feedback on how to handle this situation, and see if anyone else is going through something like this.
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