ObiOne
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Young and Divorced
07/27/07 05:35 PM
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First, I just want to say that I have read alot of the posts in this forum and they have helped me immensely. To realize that alot of other people have been through almost the exact same thing makes me feel like my divorce was alot less my fault then I thought it was. It seems like people are more selfish in today's day and age. I consider myself a very loyal and unselfish person and am mad at myself that I didnt see the signs that the person I married was not the same way. I just wanted to add some questions to this very helpful forum.
So I just got finished putting my wife through school and she said she "needed to think about herself for once" and left me to be with another man. This all went down about 10 months ago. I am 27 and now have to start all over. I have about 3 years of college left and the college/dating scene is killing me. With the abundance of datable people in my area it feels as if there would be no reason for someone to date a person like me with the baggage that I now have. The main problem I have is that I want a relationship but I loathe the "game" that accompanies starting one and dread the idea of telling someone, that I have dated for a while, that I am divorced. Sometimes I feel like I am forcing myself to date while other times I want to (up and down days of course).
How long does this hurt? Are there young people out there who see past the baggage? When, if ever, do most people get to the point where they feel like dating after divorce? What are some of the major signs that a person is selfish and has a lack of commitment?
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