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freedom123
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Huge surprise today....

08/06/07 06:55 PM

I had court this morning and the judge issued the decree of divorce without a settlement. I'm simply horrified. Yes, I wanted a divorce but why would the judge make the divorce final today without a settlement when I have proof (documents from a local farm credit agency signed and dated two weeks before our separation) that x has done all kinds of horrible, dishonest things (missing cattle, farm equipment, depleting the marital assets, using my CC to buy things for his gf)??? How long is this settlement going to drag out now? I am completely disheartened and devestated. And it was totally to benefit x because he bought some land and couldn't get a loan if he was still married to me. I had to explain it to my children tonight that the divorce was final without even preparing them that the day was now here. I didn't want their cousin telling them tomorrow. It's like cold water was thrown on me. Please, someone tell me that he won't be able to drag this out and not settle forever...this is horrible. He has my son's dirtbike and won't return it...and his guns...I'm simply horrified because I promised my baby that I would get his stuff back but I can't get them back until the settlement.

I so want to be free of him and it feels like it will never happen now...so many things are running through my head.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Huge surprise today....	freedom123	08/06/07 06:55 PM
Re: Huge surprise today....	LadyBugRN	08/07/07 07:58 AM
Re: Huge surprise today....	freedom123	08/07/07 08:43 AM
Bifurcation gets the job done!	Curmudgeon	08/06/07 09:29 PM
Re: Bifurcation gets the job done!	Drew	08/06/07 11:51 PM
Re: Huge surprise today....	PhoenixRising	08/06/07 08:36 PM

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