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Christoph
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My attorney ignores that she looted all I had
      10/29/07 04:00 AM Attachment (129 downloads)

Warning: long winded) 2.5 years ago, I found myself homeless, broke and all my belongings vandalized and looted. She confessed to taking valuables to the pawn shop. And all the 1000 personal items like photographs were destroyed 'cos shee is malicious and projects all her anger and hatred onto me.
She somehow managed to deposit stolen checks into her account (one each was from the IRS and FTB, the 3rd a $ 2,000 check from a builder). And the Cops caught her with a Meth pipe and stoned.
When a wife wants the man out, this is it. No way could I return (sleeping in my truck for weeks - no work permit being a foreigner and the home office was locked forever). Times were tough...

Some girlfriend advised her to cover her tracks and file a DV-200 form to get a TRO. Here is what happened in court 3/2005:

Judge: "you have no grounds...". she: loud crying. every body is shocked and thinks I abused her badly... So she gets a TRO for 1 month!

Next month, her excuse for not having served me was "the Police told me, this is not necessary", conjuring up images of violence and drunken abuse. None of that ever took place, but voila, she got the tRO extended another month!

May 2003, the judge would not even ask about service - he restrained both of us for 6 months which was bizarre as she had already looted everything I possessed.

Here are cases where abusive and criminal spouses can continue to see the children and I wonder what went wrong as even in her e-mail in which she informed me that she would take over the house, she complains of me having "eaten a whole loaf of bread" and not any kind of violence.

Apparently, being a man means a judge can violate your most basic Constitutional rights! I understand that once a woman wants to stay away from a man that man should not come near her, no but or if. Abuses of the DV-200 form will cause a backlash one day and women like my STBX are causing problems for genuine abuse cases.

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* My attorney ignores that she looted all I had Christoph 10/29/07 04:00 AM
. * * ??? almostheaven   10/29/07 03:56 PM
. * * It was a rant Christoph   11/01/07 12:52 AM
. * * Re: It was a rant 1004SRS   11/14/07 06:05 AM
. * * Re: It was a rant almostheaven   11/01/07 06:04 PM
. * * Re: It was a rant emilar   11/13/07 06:39 PM
. * * Re: It was a rant Relayer   11/01/07 01:36 PM
. * * Re: My attorney ignores that she looted all I had Relayer   10/29/07 06:02 AM

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