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SteelersJR1
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How do you guys handle this stuff?

10/18/05 08:24 PM

I ran into an ex-coworker tonight that happens to now work with my STBX. We've been separated for 3 months. 2 days after we were separated, she had someone move in. She felt "sorry for him-he'd been kicked out of his home". (She's 32, he's 19. She has a 15 yr old daughter & my 52 yr old son). My co worker said that she approached him seveal weeks ago & said how happy she was. I don't think she really is, I think she either hoped that info would get to me or she's trying to convince herself. Anyway, even though I know it's over & I'm trying to concentrate on my son & getting my life put back together, it's damn hard not to get upset about this kind of stuff. How do you guys hold it together? I've watched other people go through divorce & they are either deserving of Academy Awards or it washes off like dust. I can't sleep, I can't eat, I have a hard time concentrating at work; basically, I'm obsessed with the situation. HELP! How do you gather enough energy to crawl out of bed in the morning, let alone function like a reasonably sane human being? I pick different places to shop solely to avoid running into them. Where is the "chart" that says, "OK, your life going to REALLY suck for the next 273 days. Then it will only be really bad for the next 158 days. After that, you'll only be thinking about your ex 4-5 times a day". There's got to be some sort of relief from this crap. I have a 5 yd old son I miss like fire. I got to talk to him this afternoon for 3 minutes. That's the first I've talked to him in 51 days. (SOME extenuating circumstances, but mostly, my STBX is a #$%^@. I'm getting hosed more than a 3 alarm fire here. Suggestions?

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How do you guys handle this stuff?	SteelersJR1	10/18/05 08:24 PM
Re: How do you guys handle this stuff?	Debi	10/20/05 12:46 PM
you let it go	ginni	10/19/05 11:30 AM
I asked my husband also...	EmC	10/19/05 12:59 PM
Re: How do you guys handle this stuff?	Rebecca5	10/18/05 11:44 PM
No, Passem	AnneB	10/19/05 08:46 AM
Re: No, Passem	kav	10/19/05 11:22 AM
Re: How do you guys handle this stuff?	kav	10/18/05 08:40 PM
Re: How do you guys handle this stuff?	SteelersJR1	10/18/05 09:01 PM
Re: How do you guys handle this stuff?	kav	10/18/05 09:18 PM
SteelersJR1	AnneB	10/18/05 08:59 PM
Nope!	passem	10/18/05 10:11 PM
A sense of humor...	AnneB	10/18/05 10:17 PM
Well, since I find your.....	passem	10/18/05 11:04 PM
Re: A sense of humor...	SteelersJR1	10/18/05 10:55 PM
Re: A sense of humor...	passem	10/18/05 11:12 PM
Re: SteelersJR1	SteelersJR1	10/18/05 09:18 PM
Hey, SteelersJR1	AnneB	10/18/05 09:33 PM
Re: Hey, SteelersJR1	SteelersJR1	10/18/05 11:00 PM

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