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WANTING TO LEAVE!!!!!!!!
      10/19/05 03:39 PM

MY B/F AND I HAVE BEEN TOGEHTER FOR 6 YRS. WE HAVE 2 KIDS TOGETHER AND THEY'RE 3 AND 5 (5 YR. OLD JUST STARTED PRE-K). THEY'RE FATHER IS MENTALLY, VERBALLY, AND ON OCCASSION PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE. HE HAS 3 OTHER CHILDREN 1 IS A SON, 10 YRSL OLD.........HE SEES EVERY OTHER WEEKEND AND GETS DURING THE SUMMERS (THAT I WATCH). THE OTHER ARE 2 GIRLS 7 & 8......HE GAVE UP PARENTAL RIGHTS TO THE MOTHER AND STEP DAD WHEN THEY WERE 2 & 3. THE GIRLS HAVE ONE MOM AND THE SON HAS ANOTHER.......THEN THERE ARE OUR 2 BOYS. WHEN THE 8 YR. OLD GIRL WAS 3 I BELIEVE SHE WENT INTO COUNCELING FOR WHAT SHE HAD TO SEE AND HEAR W/HER MOM AND DAD AND MY 3 YR. OLD IS ACTING OUT AND SCREAMING ALOT AND AM AFRAID HE WILL NEED COUNCELING. MY 5 YR. OLD SAYS THING LIKE "DADDY'S MEAN TO U MOMMY." AND "I HATE MY DAD." I ALWAYS SAY THINGS TO HIM LIKE "NO, THIS IS JUST BIG PPL.'S TALK AND DADDY LOVES YOU AND U SHOULD LOVE HIM TOO." I'M JUST FED UP W/IT ALL. I WANT TO MOVE TO WASHINGTON STATE I HAVE ENOUGH MONEY TO GO AND TO HIRE A LAWYER FOR CUSTODY........I JUST NEED TO KNOW IF LEAGALLY I CAN. THEY HAVE HIS LAST NAME AND HE'S ON THEIR BIRTH CERTIFICATE AND HE SIGNED ACKNOWLEGEMET PAPERS (NO BLOOD TESTS DONE, ALTHOUGH, THEY R HIS). I WANT THEM TO SEE HIM, HE IS A GOOD DAD. I DON'T WANT THEM TO SEE HIM AND ANOTHER WOMAN GO THROUGH THE SAME THING. I REMEMBER HIS GIRLS SEEING US FIGHT BEFORE HE GAVE UP HIS RIGHTS....BEFORE MY KIDS WERE BORN. I'VE HAD A RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINST HIM BEFORE AND TEMP. CUSTODY, BUT WHEN WE WENT TO COURT, HE LIED AND CLEANED UP AND CRIED AND ASKED WHY I HAD DONE THIS TO HIM. THE JUDGE DIDN'T SEE HIM AS A THREAT AND TOLD ME TO DROP THE CHARGES. I WAS 3 MO. PREGNANT AND EMOTIONALLY GOING CRAZY....SO, WHEN HE SWORE TO ME HE HAD CHANGED.......EVENTUALLY I TOOK HIM BACK THINKING HE HAD. I WANTED TO BE A HAPPY FAMILY......NOT QUITE......SLOWLY, BUT SURLY THINGS HAVE GOTTEN BACK TO THE WAY THEY WERE. PLZ. I NEED SOME HELP! THE MOTHER OF THE GIRLS EVEN OFFERED HELP IF SHOULD COULD BE OF ANY.

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* WANTING TO LEAVE!!!!!!!! tweetie10922 10/19/05 03:39 PM
. * * Re: WANTING TO LEAVE!!!!!!!! tweetie10922   01/13/06 11:56 AM
. * * Re: WANTING TO LEAVE!!!!!!!! MaryWhoCares   10/21/05 08:15 PM
. * * Re: WANTING TO LEAVE!!!!!!!! DanH   10/22/05 12:51 AM
. * * Re: WANTING TO LEAVE!!!!!!!! cassw71   01/02/06 09:04 AM
. * * Re: WANTING TO LEAVE!!!!!!!! WickedStepMom   01/03/06 02:11 AM

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