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Char9
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What do I do?

04/01/08 05:50 PM

I have nowhere to live, to go, no family left to speak of if something were to happen. I am beginning to think I made a mistake when I met/got involved and married H. He is so anti social, is content to sit at the computer or read, that I feel at a loss. I was always outgoing, meeting people, making friends; then I moved 1,000 miles from home and here I am. We'll be together for nearly 10 years, married 5. He used to be romantic, when he was having the "affair" with me. Now? His idea of romance is to work on my car, wash it, do stuff in the house. He did buy a car and gave it to me while I gave him my nearly 2 year old one. He traded in his truck that he LOVED. I felt really uncomfortable with that, but he said it was 5 yrs old and time to do it. Both my parents are dead, I have no other family (don't count my sister), just a cousin back in Chicago; who also lost his sister, dad and mother. Am I looking for something that doesn't exist or should I be happy that he has always been there for me, when I spent 4 months back home with mum until her death. What the hell is wrong with me? Do I leave him and give up everything here? A house, furniture, a man who is my rock? His kids "acknowledge" me, but I keep my distance. When I look at pictures on their myspace of the mother and her fiance with them and the grandchild, I get sick to my stomach. When they come here, it's so BORING for them, that they leave within an hour or so. I'll never be close to them, they know I was the "other woman". At this point, there is nothing left for me but to stay here.

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What do I do?	Char9	04/01/08 05:50 PM
Re: What do I do?	matart1	04/02/08 09:15 AM
Re: What do I do?	Char9	04/02/08 07:24 PM
Re: What do I do?	matart1	04/03/08 09:26 AM
Re: What do I do?	Karen1	04/11/08 09:15 PM
Re: What do I do?	Char9	04/14/08 08:01 AM

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