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7isEnuf
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We pay CS for kids that are living with us...
      04/15/08 02:01 AM

Hi, guys- I have been a lurker, but wanted to come out of lurkdome and ask if you had advice about this.

Hubby's Ex left him for another man, lied about husband owing her 17K, had wages garnished, we recently paid off the false 17K through arrears garnishments, and by her taking our tax refund every year. She's done a lot of harm to us, and the kids over these last 7 years. Very money-hungry and will do anything to get it, regardless of who she hurts. It's just her nature to be evil, it seems.

The point: We have 2 of the 4 kids living with us, by their own choice, and 1 of the kids is 18 and is living on her own. So she only has ONE of the kids living with her, yet continues to collect CS for 4. Isn't that fraud? Illegal? We still have wages garnished for all 4 kids. Sometimes she sends back some of it, and thinks she's doing us a favor, but if she's ever short on money, she just keeps it. We never know what she's going to do with it, and it's OUR money! She will not take it out of CSE, and we are paying 1500/mo to her. We live in CA, so to travel and pay for an atty. is impossible, when we are forking out so much money to the woman.

We tried to ask GA for a modification, but they sent us a letter saying they couldn't because she had at one time moved out of GA and into KY, and therefore GA didn't have jurisdiction over the case any longer. She now lives back in GA, but even if she did live in KY, why would GA collect CS if they have no jurisdiction over our case anymore? Why would it be unable to be reviewed for mod? Makes no sense. She has screwed us over so many times, it's hard to understand how anyone can be so heartless.

Any ideas? Advice?

Thanks :)

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* We pay CS for kids that are living with us... 7isEnuf 04/15/08 02:01 AM
. * * Its not fraud... almostheaven   04/15/08 08:38 AM
. * * Re: Its not fraud... 7isEnuf   04/15/08 02:10 PM
. * * Re: Its not fraud... almostheaven   04/16/08 09:22 AM
. * * Re: Its not fraud... Cassie23   04/15/08 10:13 PM
. * * Re: Its not fraud... 7isEnuf   04/16/08 12:31 AM
. * * Re: Its not fraud... Cassie23   04/16/08 05:53 PM
. * * Re: Its not fraud... 7isEnuf   04/17/08 12:52 AM
. * * Re: Its not fraud... Cassie23   04/17/08 01:01 PM
. * * Re: Its not fraud... DeeCan   04/15/08 11:24 AM
. * * Re: Its not fraud... 7isEnuf   04/15/08 02:06 PM
. * * Re: Its not fraud... lilywhite   04/22/08 12:33 AM
. * * Re: We pay CS for kids that are living with us... Debi   04/15/08 08:38 AM
. * * Re: We pay CS for kids that are living with us... googledad   04/15/08 06:42 AM
. * * Re: We pay CS for kids that are living with us... Relayer   04/15/08 07:41 AM
. * * Re: We pay CS for kids that are living with us... Redlegg   04/15/08 05:58 AM

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