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lovinmykids
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Evil stepmom-vent

06/25/08 09:46 AM

My son, J, turned 13 on the 21st. The CO says that his dad gets him for half his birthday. We ended up having ex get J from 6pm the 20th until 1pm the 21st. Then we picked him up and took him to our party for him. J seemed alittle upset so I asked him if there was something he needed to talk about.

Well J had been excited about his birthday at his dad's this year. The last 3 years they have bought his brothers ice cream cakes and woke them all up at midnight to eat it since thats when the birthday started. Then later that day the brothers get a party. this has never been done for J but dad promised it would be differant this year because he has shared custody now.

Well J stayed up waiting for his ice cream cake. He got nothing!! Then before bringing J home his stepmom served THOMAS THE TANK ENGINE cupcakes for his cake. no party! No ice cream cake! Thomas the tank engine cakes! She said they were marked down and she figured J wouldn't mind since he gets a party here. J didn't even get the Thomas cake!!

well when we get there to meet J's dad I could tell J was upset right away. I saw him say something to ex but didn't hear because I leave my windows up. when J told me why he was upset he said "mom don't get mad but I spoke to a adult mean. Before I got in our van I told my dad that I don't want a cake next year because I never liked stupid thomas and don't now. I told him that T (stepmom) is a witch and I hate her and will not call her mom anymore"

Well last night his dad calls. He was making sure that we were meeting for the wendsday night visit. (BTW CO says he can not call here but he has 3 times in the last week). J gets on the phone with his dad and tells his dad "Of course I'm coming because my mom doesn't lie and she said I will be there." Ex asks to speak to me. He says "A I know J is upset. I don't know what to say to him. T said she would take care of getting the cake and I didn't know she got thomas. We got in a big arguement about it." My reply is "don't tell me, tell our son." I put J back on the phone.

When J gets off the phone he says "dad said he is sorry and it won'yt happen again and I told him yes it will as long as I have a evil stepmom. I told him I'm tired of them not loving me like my brothers but I don't need their love because my mom will always love me enough." I gave him a big hug and said "Yes I will always love you enough and your dad loves you too. I guess it's harder for him to show you because you aren't always there but never think your dad does not love you."

I am soo glad my son knows how much I love him but I hate that he feels his dad don't love him.

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Evil stepmom-vent	lovinmykids	06/25/08 09:46 AM
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Re: Okay, a few questions...	lovinmykids	06/25/08 08:14 PM
Re: Evil stepmom-vent	mommynurse	06/25/08 11:36 AM
Re: Evil stepmom-vent	lovinmykids	06/25/08 08:00 PM
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Re: Evil stepmom-vent	lovinmykids	06/25/08 07:51 PM
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Re: Maybe	lovinmykids	06/25/08 08:33 PM
Which means	KiwiGirl	06/25/08 09:21 PM
Re: Which means	lovinmykids	06/25/08 09:43 PM
Re: Which means	greeneyes	06/25/08 09:44 PM
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