sooverit
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Crazy Ex
08/05/08 05:45 PM
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So...I am currently married to a wonderful man who has been fighting for the past couple of years to have visitation with his child. His ex and he were only together for a month when she found out she was pregnant with his child long story short they lived together briefly and then it was over. He has tried and tried to be a father however the ex would only allow him to see the child if he spent time with the her. After a few years and me coming into the picture he began the fight of his life. She is crazy has pressed charges against him that he was found not guilty of has been with over 10 men in under a year has been engaged twice in less than 6 months and is currently living with her newest boyfriend of less than a month. The child calls everyone of these boyfriends Daddy so and so. And is very confused at who they are. She gets attached and then they leave. The child is starting to show some issues such as abandoment issues and speech issues. The mother constantly tells the child why the men left and screams and cries in front of the child. And then 2 weeks later she has a new boyfriend who she is in love with and they are getting married. These men move in and no longer then 2 months later they are gone. I am concerned for a few reasons. 1. the mother does not really know these men and what they are capable of. I worry about abuse and such. (although there have been no signs THANK GOD)2. She is teaching the child such horrible lessons about the value of realionships. The child has even complained of hearing the mother and boyfriends "wrestling at night". (having sex)
However now to the bigger issue....she is not complying with the court orders in regards to anything. She refuses to add my husband as an emergency contact at the childs school, he has no access to any of her records and we have no idea where or what the child does while the mother is at work. The child is under 7 years old. She is constantly harrasing us. She terrifies the child before visits and has just pretty much made our lives hell.
I do not get involved as it is there child. I am a mother and I treat the childs mother with respect as I would wish to be treated. However she is just pure EVIL. She has changed jobs over 30 times in less then 36 months she moves constantly and then with the boyfriends we have no idea who is interacting with this child.
My husband continues to be a great parent and we refrain from involving the child or making any dispariging remarks. We live our lives by example and try to provide a stable loving environment for the child. But what do you do when the ex wont play by the same rules? When she believes the court order is up to her own interpretation, when she just will not stop with trying to ruin our lives. She loses in court and files a motion the next day. She is a good mom to her child ( I think she is the best mom she know's how to be) however she is so ruthless when it comes to dealing with my husband. She is very young and immature. I think that there is some mental issues with the ex however the CFI and court failed to recoginize this. I want her to stop with the constant fighting it is not healthy for the child. He just wants to visit with his child and pay his child support. WHAT DO WE DO?
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