mmarks
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need some advise
08/28/08 02:50 AM
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Hi all. I need advise. Situation: Married to Marine (LtCol) for 8 plus years. He has 3 other bio children I was raising and I have 2 other (raising). We have 1 together (elememtary school age). He seems to have had this seperation planned for some time lol. He moved out 2 months ago. Our child lives with me and visits him reguarly. Neither of us gets child support from formers. My olderst is 18 and his oldest will be 18 shortly. He has a settlement drawn up and is pushy for a signature. Not my style. He had given me enough money to see a lawyer three short times. Since his move, We receive a total of 2,500 monthly from him. I have been a stay at home mom due to the fact that it was financialy and desirably to our benefit. I now have job apps in to fit our childs school hours. To say the least, I am drowning financially and I am not a spender. We do not own a home. I remained in the rental we have had for approx 7 yrs. Rents are high in Nova. During our marriage he was able to almost complete his masters (he is holding out on the last couple classes). I began college for a two yr degree while he was in Iraq for a few months(he volunteered & made steps to begin our seperation once there)but he refuses to finance it. Im on hold now. I will get to many questions in time here and boy do I need advise. Im logical enough to be on this form so ive been doing my homework. But Im stumped on fact and hearsay. He has seen almost every jag on the bases local. Bumping me out lol. He is at 22 yrs. Retires in two months. He was supposed to retire already but changed it because I would not sign papers in march while we stil lived together. Says he is thinking of changing it again. Q: (Bah is 2,745.)Am I only intitled to 2/3 of that and does that cover child support and spousal support? If I asked the court for a temp order (?) would I be able to get more help from him? And is there a way I could get him to pay a lawyer for me? Ive never felt so cornered! However, I will not sign a thing because I feel he is undercutting us wanting me to agree to 2,500 monthly. If i'm wrong, please tell me. I have many other questions that i'd like to post. Thank you for any facts.
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