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NEW TO THE BOARD...PLEASE HELP
      11/22/04 12:37 PM

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED 10 YEARS. I HAVE TWO CHILDREN WITH THIS MAN AND I WANT A DIVORCE. I WILL TRY TO MAKE A LONG STORY SHORT. ABOUT THREE YEARS AGO I FOUND OUT HE HAD AN AFFAIR. I THOUGHT I COULD FORGIVE AND FORGET, OR AT LEAST MOVE ON. BUT I HAVE COME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT NOT ONLY CAN YOU NOT FORGET BUT I CAN'T EVEN SEEM TO FORGIVE. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN THIS TO HIM OR TO MY CHILDREN. WE HAVE DISCUSSED IN THE PAST WHAT WE WOULD DO IF WE EVER SEPERATED, AND HE HAS RECENTLY TOLD ME THAT HE WOULD NOT BE WILLING TO GIVE ME A DIVORCE. MY DAUGHTER IS 10 YEARS OLD AND VERY CLOSE TO HER FATHER, MY SON IS ONLY 2 AND ALSO VERY CLOSE TO HIM. HE IS A PRETTY GOOD DAD, BUT A LOUSY HUSBAND. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO BUT I AM TIRED OF BEING MISERABLE SO THAT EVERYBODY ELSE CAN BE HAPPY. SHOULD I HAVE TO SACRIFICE MY HAPPINESS FOR THE KIDS SAKE? I SIMPLY DO NOT LOVE HIM ANYMORE AND CAN'T GET PAST THE THINGS HE HAS PUT ME THROUGH. BUT I AM WILLING TO DO ANYTHING FOR MY KIDS TO BE HAPPY. MAYBE SOMEBODY OUT THERE HAS BEEN THROUGH A SIMILAR SITUATION AND CAN HELP. I WILL TAKE ANY ADVICE ANYONE HAS. THANK YOU

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* NEW TO THE BOARD...PLEASE HELP bobbih 11/22/04 12:37 PM
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. * * Re: NEW TO THE BOARD...PLEASE HELP bobbih   11/29/04 08:33 AM
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. * * Re: NEW TO THE BOARD...PLEASE HELP Grace   12/03/04 12:25 PM
. * * Re: NEW TO THE BOARD...PLEASE HELP bobbih   12/06/04 08:47 AM
. * * Re: NEW TO THE BOARD...PLEASE HELP Onyx   11/23/04 03:04 AM
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