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NanV58
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LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES

11/27/04 08:44 AM

I have posted before regarding 50/50 legal and shared physical placement in RI. I am scheduled for court this coming Thursday (after one postponement in October in attempts to settle between lawyers. While I submitted an itemized list of expenses totalling $4000 in mid October, my ex just responded with his own list of almost equal expenses. Per advice from the board, I just asked my lawyer to validate his list by receipts and payments as I do suspect the list is not totally honest by substantial amounts. Clothing expenses seem very high considering I see my boys every day and know what they wear. One expense is for $94 for hats and gloves. Am I crazy or does that seem like alot? He also included a $100 bicycle as a birthday gift, a trip to Six Flags (over $100) and a week of camping (over $100) when the boys were scheduled to be in his custody. While I have taken our two sons on numerous vacations, I would never think to include that in expenses. Also, he included a $165 sports registration fee for January 2004 winter league. Our son did not play. Lastly, I have not asked for any compensation considering that our 50/50 physical placement has been 60/40 for the past year. Will my request to have his expenses validated further delay a resolution? Our youngest son is 11 and I cannot afford to keep assuming the majority of expenses without a better accounting system. For the first two years of the divorce, we submitted monthly bills to each other with receipts for any expenses over $10 and reimbursed each other 50%. In August 2002, two months after he remarried and moved to a different town 15 miles away, he wrote that he would no longer acknowledge any bills that I submitted as he equally shared costs. What might be the legal outcome of this situation?

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	NanV58	11/27/04 08:44 AM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Gecko	12/01/04 01:55 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	NanV58	12/01/04 03:18 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Gecko	12/01/04 05:08 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	NanV58	12/01/04 05:17 PM
This is exactly why	Melody	11/27/04 09:02 PM
Why should there be ANY support?	gr8Dad	11/27/04 09:09 PM
Re: Why should there be ANY support?	NanV58	11/27/04 09:46 PM
You should really try READING...	gr8Dad	11/27/04 11:04 PM
Re: You should really try READING...	NanV58	11/28/04 09:03 AM
Re: You should really try READING...	NanV58	11/28/04 09:08 AM
One quick question Nan...	gr8Dad	11/28/04 04:05 PM
Re: One quick question Nan...	NanV58	11/28/04 06:57 PM
The point is...	gr8Dad	11/28/04 07:06 PM
Re: The point is...	NanV58	11/28/04 08:09 PM
Nav....just a question for me please	Melody	11/28/04 08:42 PM
Re: Nav....just a question for me please	NanV58	11/28/04 10:05 PM
Well...nothing personal...	Melody	11/29/04 01:42 AM
From what I gathered...	gr8Dad	11/28/04 09:16 PM
Re: From what I gathered...	NanV58	11/28/04 10:37 PM
Re: The point is...	aussie928	11/28/04 07:13 PM
Guess what mate...	gr8Dad	11/28/04 07:31 PM
Re: Guess what mate...	aussie928	11/29/04 12:47 PM
I have posted it here before...	gr8Dad	11/29/04 05:51 PM
Re: I have posted it here before...	aussie928	11/29/04 06:11 PM
Not to mention...	almostheaven	11/29/04 08:12 PM
Do YOU read it before you post it?	gr8Dad	11/29/04 06:22 PM
Re: Do YOU read it before you post it?	aussie928	11/29/04 06:36 PM
Re: Do YOU read it before you post it?	aussie928	11/29/04 06:32 PM
The fact that you would...	gr8Dad	11/29/04 06:41 PM
No Gr8Dad...	Eric	12/02/04 11:22 AM
Bite on this. . .	tjonzen420	12/03/04 12:32 AM
Re: Bite on this. . .	aussie928	12/04/04 05:14 PM
No, really, how do you feel?	gr8Dad	12/04/04 02:35 AM
Re: No, really, how do you feel?	tjonzen420	12/04/04 10:49 PM
Love the names!!!!	Melody	12/04/04 01:08 AM
Then you'll adore this....	almostheaven	12/04/04 09:59 AM
Don't be sorry...	almostheaven	12/03/04 09:02 AM
Re: No Gr8Dad...	aussie928	12/02/04 01:18 PM
Re: The fact that you would...	aussie928	11/29/04 08:03 PM
Re: The fact that you would...	aussie928	11/29/04 07:39 PM
Re: Guess what mate...	almostheaven	11/29/04 01:26 PM
Why do you think it is funny?	gr8Dad	11/29/04 05:53 PM
You're so predictable...	almostheaven	11/29/04 08:14 PM
Ah, the TRUE "AlmostHell"...	gr8Dad	11/29/04 08:20 PM
Re: Ah, the TRUE "AlmostHell"...	almostheaven	11/29/04 08:41 PM
Ah jeez, you guys	Melody	11/29/04 08:45 PM
Re: Ah jeez, you guys	aussie928	11/29/04 09:56 PM
Sorry, Aussie	Melody	11/29/04 10:36 PM
Re: Melody's Right	Diane67	11/30/04 11:50 AM
Back to topic on 50/50 and shared bills	NanV58	11/30/04 03:14 PM
Yours is pretty unique, Nan	Melody	11/30/04 07:59 PM
Re: Why do you think it is funny?	aussie928	11/29/04 06:14 PM
No, I hold women to the same standard...	gr8Dad	11/29/04 06:23 PM
I don't care what other....	Eric	11/29/04 06:28 PM
Re: I don't care what other....	Onyx	11/30/04 03:58 AM
Re: Guess what mate...	aussie928	11/29/04 10:08 AM
More "double talk"	Eric	11/29/04 10:45 AM
Re: More "double talk"	Onyx	11/29/04 02:53 PM
Stopping dissing...	almostheaven	11/29/04 05:03 PM
LMAO!	Melody	11/29/04 06:45 PM
Re: More "double talk"	aussie928	11/29/04 12:30 PM
Do you read what you write?...	almostheaven	11/29/04 09:06 AM
Re: Do you read what you write?...	NanV58	11/29/04 05:06 PM
Re: Do you read what you write?...	aussie928	11/29/04 06:22 PM
Re: You should really try READING...	Onyx	11/28/04 09:23 AM
Re: You should really try READING...	Onyx	11/28/04 08:06 AM
Re: Why should there be ANY support?	aussie928	11/27/04 10:36 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Onyx	11/27/04 12:18 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	NanV58	11/27/04 05:15 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	aussie928	11/27/04 08:49 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	NanV58	11/27/04 09:03 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Onyx	11/28/04 08:09 AM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Gryph	11/27/04 10:37 AM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Eric	11/27/04 07:01 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Onyx	11/27/04 10:29 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Onyx	11/27/04 10:26 PM
What are YOUR expenses?	gr8Dad	11/27/04 09:10 AM

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