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hardwaregod
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YIKES!!!

12/04/08 07:09 PM

So marriage is great, married 3yrs, have 2 kids already (6 mos. & 2 yrs) then at our first "alone" dinner date in two years she drops the bomb. All of a sudden my wife wants to be separated to "see how things go" and she still loves me but she's no longer IN love with me. Killer. Devastated. Blindsided. WHOA! What?!?!? We saw a marriage counselor and although my gut felt, and signs pointed to, her having an affair, she denied it, even in front of our counselor whom she told a week before.

SO, a week ago while looking over home phone and cell-phone records I notice a number repeatedly ONLY during times when I'm not home. One night I dial the number and a man answers. I confront her and it turns out to be a man she has been having an "emotional affair" with for some time. Someone at work who had just separated from his wife. She acted like it was no big deal, but nobody who cares about her knew about this and she won't give me his name.

I still love her, but if it weren't for our family and two innocent children, I think I would have left her. I'm forgiving her for our family's sake and I'm putting 200% into this, but she still thinks she wants to separate, and I don't feel like she's really putting a lot of effort into saving this.

Has anybody had this happen under these circumstances? Any suggestions other than telling her in depth how I feel?; that hasn't worked.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
YIKES!!!	hardwaregod	12/04/08 07:09 PM
Re: YIKES!!!	2girls3boys	12/04/08 08:39 PM
Re: YIKES!!!	hardwaregod	12/05/08 05:52 AM
Re: YIKES!!!	johnson27	12/05/08 09:25 AM
Re: YIKES!!!	Gestalt	12/12/08 08:28 AM

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