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Moving on and insecurities
      04/30/09 08:28 AM

It's been a few months of dating the same guy and we're getting serious. Still in the beginning and all is bliss stage. Or maybe not. My day used to be filled with sweet texts, emails and calls "just because" and while I knew that was not going to and should not last forever that way, now that those have curtailed, I feel my insecurities creeping up.

Being that this is the first real relationship I've had in 20 years, I don't know what's "normal" any more. Especially since last time I dated, emails and texts hardly, if at all, existed.

I had emailed him first thing in the morning some ideas about us spending the weekend together. In the past, we would've either spoken on the phone or emailed back and forth a few times during the day. I got no reply. I remembered him saying he had a busy day at work so I chalked it up to that.

When he called late last night, he said he rather speak to me than email me about the weekend. So we did and that was fine. Then I mentioned how I thought something was wrong with my phone because not only had I not heard from him as usual, NO ONE called, texted or emailed me the entire day. I'm used to at least one of each from SOMEone (not just him)and I thought it was funny. Then he said that he was really bored at work and it was just an OK day.

Well, if he was really bored at work, then why did he wait until 9:45 at night to call me?

I know, it could be anything. But here I am feeling a bit insecure looking for opinions and advice on current relationship dynamics and trends. Anyone wanna comment?

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* Moving on and insecurities nolonger 04/30/09 08:28 AM
. * * Re: Moving on and insecurities ace   05/16/09 11:55 AM
. * * Re: Moving on and insecurities nolonger   05/22/09 02:12 PM
. * * Re: Moving on and insecurities losingfaith   05/26/09 03:32 PM
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. * * Re: Moving on and insecurities Wallie1337   05/30/09 06:53 PM
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. * * Re: Moving on and insecurities myheart   06/02/09 03:22 PM
. * * Re: Moving on and insecurities nolonger   05/05/09 12:32 PM
. * * Re: Moving on and insecurities Wallie1337   05/05/09 01:00 PM
. * * Re: Moving on and insecurities johnson27   04/30/09 08:44 AM
. * * Re: Moving on and insecurities nolonger   04/30/09 12:12 PM
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