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Justification for violence toward women
      06/10/09 01:08 PM

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Hi,My wife and I are amidst negotiating spousal support before signing a separation agreement, and I need some advice.

We were married for 2.5 years. During our first year of marriage, we both had independent sources of income. 2 years ago, we moved from upstate to NYC, where I got a job ($180K) and she quit her job to seek something new. She never found a job the first year, and second year, she chose to go back to school to finish her bachelor’s. In short, I have been the sole earner for two years.

She has moved out (after fights about $ and marriage; no extreme scenario) and is now asking for spousal support for a year in the amount of 30K, and I am trying to decide if this is reasonable. The way I see it is, we have no children, and we lived in a rented apartment, so she has had minimal household responsibilities. Although she did give up her career in upstate to move with me, and I agreed to support her while she looked for a new career, she has been financially independent until just these two years. It was also her decision to go back to school instead of continuing to look for a job.

Since this is the attitude of most women upon breakup of a marriage, violence is certainly justified in most cases.

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* Justification for violence toward women yregna 06/10/09 01:08 PM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women Yes_Dad   07/14/09 05:44 PM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women kotabear   07/16/09 09:41 AM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women Yes_Dad   06/16/09 08:26 AM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women BeckaLeigh   06/16/09 09:25 AM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women Yes_Dad   06/17/09 04:00 PM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women BeckaLeigh   06/18/09 01:53 PM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women Yes_Dad   06/21/09 04:51 PM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women almostheaven   06/23/09 07:20 AM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women Yes_Dad   06/23/09 07:26 AM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women almostheaven   06/23/09 08:29 AM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women almostheaven   06/23/09 08:30 AM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women shortmarriage   06/17/09 11:50 PM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women Yes_Dad   06/26/09 05:56 PM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women almostheaven   07/07/09 06:46 AM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women shortmarriage   06/27/09 12:45 PM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women mentalist   06/11/09 03:00 PM
. * * Yridiot's a troll... almostheaven   06/12/09 06:50 AM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women mentalist   06/11/09 03:07 PM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women yregna   07/14/09 01:28 PM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women mentalist   07/14/09 02:59 PM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women finz   06/11/09 11:17 PM
. * * Re: Justification for violence toward women nolonger   06/11/09 10:22 AM

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