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jaybeedee619
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What else can I do?

06/11/09 01:33 PM

I have been working on "fixing" my marriage for years. Which basically meant working on me because I was told (and believed) it was my deficiencies that were the problem. I now have changed quite a bit. Of course, now my changing is the problem. He admits that he hasn't worked on the marriage as much as me. He also says that if it fails, it's his fault. And he says he doesn't want to divorce. I asked him for 2 things: 1 thing needs to be addressed from the past and 1 thing in order to move forward. He won't say what he wants/needs. It's been 6 weeks w/o him working on either request. What do I do now? How do I know he is trying to work on it vs. just not willing to end it? I'm getting so frustrated. And with 3 kids and 17-year relationship (13 married), I'm reluctant to walk away unless it's really over.

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What else can I do?	jaybeedee619	06/11/09 01:33 PM
Re: What else can I do?	bilbus	06/13/09 07:44 PM
Re: What else can I do?	losingfaith	06/18/09 01:39 PM

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