hessie30
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Incarceration = NO CS order, not fair to our kid
11/14/09 08:46 AM
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I was awarded my divorce and full and sole custody of son today. His dad was incarcerated 3 months ago for some pretty serious crimes and I don't know if he will be taking a trip to prison or not at this point. The judge ruled that the child support and visitation issue would be put in abadance (sp??) until he gets out of jail. Who knows when that will be but until the meantime our son is to do what??? Why is it our fault that he decided to break crimes and is now in jail and oh let's reward him by not making him responsible for his child support because he is in jail for HIS bad decisions. I am angry he just gets away with the [censored] he does. Is this legal for this to happen?? Hell I guess it is, it just amazes me and right now I have a doggone headache from today I suppose. I thought at least the judge would impute minimum wage for 40 hrs. and make the order according to that even if he's not working. Him not working or making bad decisions is not my or son's fault or problem but we are the ones to pay for it. To be honest I am pissed that he was not orderd to pay but I got what I wanted the most important thing: Sole and full custody of son and the divorce.
He didn't ask to be brought over to the court house today and that was a bunch of rigamaro because he refused to sign the paper I took to him saying he realized their was a hearing today and he chose not to attend. SO the judge said for him to sign or he would be transported over there. Hell I don't know maybe he wanted a field trip of sorts since he's in one big pod. He was hostile to the guards at the jail telling them he knew about it and didn't want to talk about it; kinda like if I keep my eyes closed this won't be happening. He was shackled from head to toe and that was a sad sight for me. I really wasn't wanting to see him today but of course he will be an ass till the end. Not surprising. We are in SC so if anyone knows if there is a way to have a court order made with the parent in jail, please enlighten me. Hell I'll never be able to find and serve him again. He was dodging me in getting the divorce summons and when he went to jail I jumped on the chance to have him served. Why should he be excused from his responsibility because he is jailed???? Anyway if anyone has any words of wisdom or support I'm all ears!! :)
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Incarceration = NO CS order, not fair to our kid
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hessie30
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11/14/09 08:46 AM
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gr8Dad
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11/14/09 09:03 AM
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hessie30
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11/14/09 09:18 AM
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BeachBabeRN
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11/14/09 09:25 AM
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hessie30
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11/14/09 10:08 AM
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11/14/09 01:00 PM
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Miranda
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11/14/09 01:48 PM
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hessie30
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11/14/09 10:38 PM
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BeachBabeRN
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11/15/09 07:49 AM
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hessie30
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11/15/09 11:28 AM
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11/15/09 11:31 AM
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Sherron
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11/15/09 11:57 AM
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hessie30
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11/15/09 02:51 PM
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11/15/09 04:08 PM
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Sherron
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11/15/09 08:33 PM
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Sherron
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11/15/09 03:08 PM
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hessie30
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11/15/09 04:06 PM
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11/15/09 01:06 PM
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Sherron
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11/15/09 12:26 AM
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Cassie23
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11/14/09 10:58 AM
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JennyLynn
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11/14/09 11:06 AM
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JennyLynn
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11/14/09 10:22 AM
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hessie30
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11/14/09 10:59 AM
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hessie30
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11/14/09 11:15 AM
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JennyLynn
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11/14/09 11:16 AM
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hessie30
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11/14/09 11:18 AM
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11/14/09 11:08 AM
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hessie30
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11/14/09 11:33 AM
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BeachBabeRN
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11/14/09 11:46 AM
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BeachBabeRN
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11/14/09 11:48 AM
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hessie30
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11/14/09 11:52 AM
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JennyLynn
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11/14/09 11:52 AM
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11/14/09 12:55 PM
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Sherron
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11/14/09 01:06 PM
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11/14/09 01:40 PM
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11/14/09 11:43 AM
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