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swaman
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      05/20/10 09:10 AM

I live in upstate New York, married for 29 years. I left, she filed. I make $104,000.00 yr, she makes $27000.00.
I was just informed that when our divorce is final, my temporary maintenance will become permanent and INCREASE to $620.00 per week (up from the $500.00 I'm paying now.
Since I took all her debt with me when I left, I'm having trouble paying the $500.00 on time.
My attorney tells me this is all a calculation that is done by the judge based on my gross income. Is this TRUE? Am I to assume that this is totally non-negotiable?
With her job and my maintenance, she'll be eating caviarre, I'll be eating rice cakes!
i want to take care of her (this is NOT a hostle divorce) but I want to be able to LIVE too.

Swa

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* New York State...... swaman 05/20/10 09:10 AM
. * * Re: New York State...... 1966Gal   05/24/10 01:42 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... spinnerdegrassi   05/24/10 01:55 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... 1966Gal   05/24/10 03:08 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... Miranda   05/24/10 04:07 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... Yes_Dad   05/20/10 12:25 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... english7   05/20/10 12:51 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... spinnerdegrassi   05/20/10 01:04 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... Goodmom   05/22/10 06:43 AM
. * * Re: New York State...... english7   05/22/10 02:36 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... Yes_Dad   05/22/10 04:32 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... english7   05/22/10 04:36 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... english7   05/20/10 02:11 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... Yes_Dad   05/20/10 02:50 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... Yes_Dad   05/20/10 02:55 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... Goodmom   05/22/10 06:44 AM
. * * Re: New York State...... english7   05/20/10 03:08 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... Yes_Dad   05/20/10 03:27 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... english7   05/20/10 04:52 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... Yes_Dad   05/22/10 04:26 AM
. * * Re: New York State...... Goodmom   05/22/10 06:47 AM
. * * Re: New York State...... yregna   05/21/10 01:34 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... Yes_Dad   05/22/10 04:31 AM
. * * Re: New York State...... english7   05/22/10 04:42 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... yregna   05/24/10 06:02 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... english7   05/24/10 11:07 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... english7   05/24/10 11:05 PM
. * * Re: New York State...... Miranda   05/25/10 07:14 AM

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