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BurnedbyDivorce
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Situation w/ Ex-Wife (Spousal Support)
      07/11/10 02:32 AM

So... ex-wife is cohabitating w/ her boyfried/fiance, who has kids of his own, and is pregnant w/ expectancy date of 22 Jul. I am ordered to pay her $600 a month for 5 years, half the length of marriage. It's been over two years that I have paid on time, every month. There is nothing wrong with her... she has a full time job, education, etc. She says she "needs" this money though. Last month, the check didn't arrive on the 1st and she flipped out... it got there on the 2nd. She was in panic mode, because she knows that she is in the wrong. Said she was in contact with her lawyer, etc. I am in the military and now she is snooping around, trying to get in contact with my Commander/Shirt... I don't know the reason, but I suspect she is either going to bad mouth me or try to garnish my wages every month. From what I read, she can't do this without a court order.

I don't have the money right now, but I want to take her back to court. She knows that she's at risk of losing her support, so she says she is living with a roomate and pays half of everything. She also lied about the baby and said she lost it. I want to hire a PI to prove the cohibilitation so when I take her to court, she will hang herself when she lies in front of the judge.

This is getting sticky quick... I need to protect myself and my career, at the same time put money back in my pocket that doesn't belong to her.

Any advice/suggestions are appreciated.

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* Situation w/ Ex-Wife (Spousal Support) BurnedbyDivorce 07/11/10 02:32 AM
. * * Re: Situation w/ Ex-Wife (Spousal Support) BarbaraSD   07/13/10 08:29 PM
. * * Re: Situation w/ Ex-Wife (Spousal Support) Yes_Dad   07/14/10 04:06 AM
. * * Re: Situation w/ Ex-Wife (Spousal Support) gr8Dad   07/13/10 08:32 PM
. * * Re: Situation w/ Ex-Wife (Spousal Support) finz   07/14/10 12:50 AM
. * * Re: Situation w/ Ex-Wife (Spousal Support) Yes_Dad   07/11/10 04:27 AM

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