Divorce Source: Wife in limbo, not sure what to do....

Encyclopedia

Checklists

Tools

Downloads

Bookstore

Start Your Divorce Today - Premium Divorce Online

You are not logged in. [Login]
NEW USER Registration

DS Home · Community Forums · All Forums/Msg. Centers
NEW USER Registration · Search Community Forums · Help

Divorce Source Community Forums >> Saving Your Marriage

Lostintheworld
recently joined

Reged: 07/28/10
Posts: 1

Wife in limbo, not sure what to do....

07/28/10 06:45 AM

Hey all,

Couple nights ago, my wife shocked me with a discussion about "not wanting to do this anymore". We didn't come out of an argument, but noticed she was being real distant lately, so I asked. I asked about seeing a marriage counceler, and she more or less said that she didn't, but also knew her parents/family were going to be very upset with her for not "trying".

2 years ago, we went thru this, got a bit of counceling, but then she got pregnant, and she stopped going, but I continued since I was having a hard time dealing with my own personal struggles (abandoment from my mother leaving when I was little)

Last night, my wife told me she wasn't happy, and felt that therapy wasn't going to change the way she felt. It sounds like she 2 steps out the door, but isn't going through it. I've told her that while I wasn't going to hold the door open for it, I'm certainly not standing in front of it. Its her decision, and everytime we talk, its more like she wants ME to make the decision (or give her options). I will not, since I do not want to influence her thought process. We've been married 4 years, dating for 11 and have one child.

Suggestions for me? I'm going back to therapy, because I already know this is going to be hard, but the hardest part is her keeping me in limbo and saying "she doesn't know what she wants to do"

Post Extras

Entire topic
Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Wife in limbo, not sure what to do....	Lostintheworld	07/28/10 06:45 AM
Re: Wife in limbo, not sure what to do....	palmel1234	07/29/10 02:13 PM
Re: Wife in limbo, not sure what to do....	Natalie_Taylor	08/03/10 09:05 AM
Re: Wife in limbo, not sure what to do....	yngwies_guitar	08/13/10 01:07 PM
any good please to sell and buy site traffic ?	irrageder	01/16/12 02:18 PM

Extra information

0 registered and 2 anonymous users are browsing this forum.

Moderator:

Forum Permissions
      You cannot start new topics
      You cannot reply to topics
      HTML is disabled
      UBBCode is enabled

Rating:
Thread views: 3075

Jump to

Divorce Source Home

UBB.threads™ 6.5.1.1

Resources & Tools

	Start Your Divorce Several Options to Get Started Today.		Online Divorce Tools Keeping it Simple to Get the Job Done.
	Download Center Instantly Download Books, Guides & Forms.		Discount Books Over 100 of the Best Divorce & Custody Books.
	Negotiate Online Settle your Divorce and Save.		Custody Scheduling Make Sure You Document Everything.

Easily Connect With a Lawyer or Mediator

Have Divorce Professionals from Your Area Contact You!