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      08/15/10 04:27 PM

I have been on this site just a couple days reading many posts. I can certainly sympathize with people on here and what they are going thru.. I too have gone thru the process. I was married for 34 yrs. I had a civil service job which I retired from in Apr 07. In Jun of 07 my wife left me suddenly with no prior warning for a new boyfriend. I was able to keep the house but lost half my retirement in the divorce. Its been over three yrs and I gotta say its been a rough ride for me. I had to go back to work full time (diff job). I also have a part time job so I am busy during the week. The emotional rollercoaster is what is the toughest for me. One day you're ok the next its depression. Sometimes the depression lasts for days but so far I have been able to snap out of it. Keeping busy working helps. Don't get me wrong there is no way I would want her back. After 3 yrs I am well over that but now it seems the loneliness is the toughest thing to deal with. With my schedule its hard to meet anyone. Not that I am looking to get married soon or ever but it would be nice to have someone to do things with. Does anyone else experience this roller coaster ride of emotions ? As far as feeling good and slipping into the blues ? Its been a tough ride but I know I am better off now than I was before.

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* newbie lb6869 08/15/10 04:27 PM
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