heathermom
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is there any hope?
08/31/10 08:48 PM
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My husband, who is working in Afghanistan right now sent me an email in May saying he feels he is missing out on something. He thinks there is more to life then getting married and having kids. I was so taken off guard. I knew that we woild sometimes argue about the fact that he wanted to go every weekend with his friends and I wanted him to stay home. Other than that we had a happy good marriage. We have 2 kids and I am so upset. We have only recieved 2 phone calls that were brief and he seemed uninterested. He had said he was not talking divorce YET, but then all we ever got was replies to emails I sent him. I started trying to stop begging for him to come back and stoped sending so many pathtic emails. I did not want to play games I mean we are 32 years old and have 2 kids shouldnt we be beyond that? I have noticed he sent me a few emails without me sending 1 first and I called him the last 2 weekends to let oir daughters talk to him and he talked to me these talks were great we laughed but did not talk about our marriage at all it is just like an elphant in the room. I do not want to bring it up and push him away again by seeming to needy. It just hurts because I do not want him to string me along. A month ago I sent him an email telling him I did not want a divorce but needed to know if he changed his mind and wanted one so I can move on with my life. He said he still did not know he said he feels like something is missing but he also feels like something is missing there. He said we will have to wait and see what happens and to hang in there!! I am just looking to talk to other people because all I have is my sister and I know she is sick of hearing about this. Do you think there is hope and he is starting to come around, or do yo think I am reading to much into everything?
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