philivey
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Another Instance of Spousal Abuse
09/20/10 08:05 PM
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I am trapped by guilt in an unhappy marriage that is filled with arguing and fighting. For instance, last night, an issue arose while we were laying in bed. She poked me in the shoulder 4 times then slapped me while I lay defenseless half asleep. I am trying to figure out a way through the guilt. The situation and circumstances are bad. We share a 4 month year old, and a 12-year old step daughter. We are living with my parents. My parents sort of enable the abuse and act as "referee's" in the whole ordeal. My parents have to constantly talk to my wife and my father is constantly bring "self-help" material to my wife.
My wife doesn't want to work. We are on government programs just to remain afloat and remain somewhat independent.
I really want my wife out of the house and into a job working but unfortunelty her last job was as a stripper and that job is acceptable while a member of the household. She is too pridefull to get a "normal job" and is just waiting it out until she is eligable for alimony because she barely has a high school diploma and thinks her best option is to let me save up my money in the joint checking, take half, plus pension "alimony".
I am fearfull of this and want it to stop immediatly.
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