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flyboy
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tell me i didn't screw up....

01/08/11 04:51 PM

I'm a first time user for anything like this, but here is my situation. I'm 25 years old and have been married for 2 and 1/2 years. My wife and I have been together for over 8 years. For the last month i have noticed that she was spending more time away from home and less time with me. I work 50 hours a week plus go to school full time so i'm not home often (admittedly) but even when i was home, she wouldn't spend time with me. I eventually found emails between her and an ex-boyfriend of hers, both sexually explicit and them professing their love to each other. I finally confronted her and she fully admitted it. She has been living at her mom's for the last two weeks while she gets things figured out, but has consistently refused to stop communicating with this other guy. Last night, i found that she was searching for information on divorce lawyers. I decided that i had had enough and gave her an ultimatum to either stop talking to the other guy and commit to trying to work on our marriage or pack her crap and go. I gave her 48 hours to give me an answer, but now I am questioning whether i did the right thing without damaging any chance that i may have of saving our marriage.

We have a 15 month old son together and i don't want of this to hurt him, but i am tired of playing the middle ground and no moving on with my life with or without her.

Any insight would be appreciated!!!

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
tell me i didn't screw up....	flyboy	01/08/11 04:51 PM
Re: tell me i didn't screw up....	Annie7676	01/12/11 08:58 AM
Re: tell me i didn't screw up....	yregna	01/14/11 10:31 AM
Re: tell me i didn't screw up....UPDATE!!!	flyboy	01/20/11 05:38 PM
Re: tell me i didn't screw up....UPDATE!!!	PdM35	02/28/11 02:18 PM
Re: tell me i didn't screw up....UPDATE!!!	HappilyMarried	03/08/11 02:15 PM
Re: tell me i didn't screw up....	BeckaLeigh	01/12/11 12:54 AM
Re: tell me i didn't screw up....	NoRegrets	01/11/11 04:42 PM

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