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Would you find this odd?
02/28/11 09:05 AM
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I've been divorced for 3 years with no children and in my late 30s. I have two issues I would like help with. Here is the first one.
I have been dating this guy for 6 months. He's a 41 yr old single dad of 2 young children. When he got divorced a few years ago he asked his mother to move here to help with the children(he has his kids 50% and exwife has them 50%) on the days he has them. His mom now lives next door and gets the kids on and off the bus after school cause hes working. Now this is fine but she does other things I'm concerned about.
1. He does not own a washer/dryer but his mom does. So he brings all his/kids laundry over for his mom to do.
2. He has almost no food in the house except snacks(no main meals,vegs,fruits ect). The reason being is his mom does all the cooking for him and the kids. He knows how to cook cause he has cooked for me.
3. He told me hes "bad with money" so he gives his mom money and she writes out all his bills. He does not own a check book.
He's a really nice guy and treats me wonderful BUT seems not very ambitious or independent for someone in there 40s. Am I being to hard or do you guys find this odd?
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