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Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing?
      03/11/11 05:05 PM

I think you've gotten some excellent advice from others on this forum.

Sometimes relationships become habits instead of the true loving relationships they promised to be in the beginning. Mentally and emotionally, you probably left your marriage a long time ago.

Before you will be able to fully move past this relationship and be truly ready for another one, you will need to understand your role in the demise of the marriage. Sometimes it's as simple (and as complicated) as poor communication; not saying what needed to be said, not listening or not asking the importat questions. It may be other things as well. If you don't figure out your part in it, you will take those issues to your next relationship.

This is a perfect time for you to examine your own beliefs about relationships and become reaquainted with who you are. One way to do that is to set aside at least 15 to 30 minutes each day and just write whatever comes to your mind. Don't censor yourself, just write. You will be surprised at the clarity that comes from putting your thoughts on paper versus letting them spin around in your mind.

You seem like someone who has his head together... I know you'll come through this just fine.

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Linda T

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* This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon 03/09/11 01:05 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Debi   03/18/11 08:49 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   03/21/11 02:46 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Debi   03/21/11 07:18 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   03/22/11 06:24 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Debi   03/22/11 09:45 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   03/23/11 09:42 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Annie7676   03/25/11 02:04 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   03/25/11 02:42 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? yregna   03/29/11 09:48 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   04/04/11 08:56 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   05/27/11 10:40 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? AlisonSmith   09/27/11 05:41 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Annie7676   03/26/11 06:46 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   03/28/11 06:49 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Annie7676   03/28/11 03:46 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Debi   03/24/11 07:47 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   03/25/11 07:26 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? NancyD   03/11/11 09:07 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   03/11/11 09:56 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? selfcare   03/11/11 05:05 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   03/14/11 07:19 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? yregna   03/16/11 02:34 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   03/16/11 02:54 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Annie7676   03/17/11 05:56 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   03/17/11 08:45 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? yregna   03/18/11 11:34 AM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   03/18/11 12:59 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Annie7676   03/09/11 04:06 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   03/09/11 05:03 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Annie7676   03/10/11 04:43 PM
. * * Re: This seems...too easy- am I missing somthing? Keepenon   03/11/11 08:36 AM

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