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Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!!
      05/04/11 11:24 PM

Now HERE is a pro-active approach. Would you be willing to sign a contract agreeing that if you did NOT return to NJ/NY in two years, that custody automatically transferred to him?

i told him that we could put that in writing, I have every intention of coming back here, as my mother, siblings, nephews, etc are all here.

i didnt nix it in front of him, i told my son that he had to wait until he was old enough to ride them, that they don't give dirtbikes to 7 year olds...

What is the kicker is that when we set the current visitiation his lawyer suggested to be every third weekend, I had to voice the weekends and speak up for my ex, as we had agreed to terms prior to the sit down, but he would not speak his opinion in the courts. I have to call him every friday night to make sure he is going to show the next day so my son doesn't get his hopes up when he says "something came up". When I gave him the opportunity to spend more time with his son during the school weeks he declined because he had other things that required his attention...I'm looking out for my sons well being here, as he is my world. I wished his father would make him priority one as well, but its always something else...

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* Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom 05/04/11 06:41 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! Cassie23   05/05/11 09:32 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! BeachBabeRN   05/04/11 07:49 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 08:19 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! gr8Dad   05/04/11 08:53 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 09:04 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! gr8Dad   05/04/11 09:20 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 09:43 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! gr8Dad   05/04/11 09:55 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 11:04 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! gr8Dad   05/04/11 11:12 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 11:24 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 11:27 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 11:31 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! gr8Dad   05/04/11 11:34 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 11:40 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! elliesmom   05/05/11 08:04 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! Cassie23   05/05/11 09:09 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! LexieBelle   05/05/11 09:14 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! Cassie23   05/05/11 09:22 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! LexieBelle   05/05/11 09:37 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! Cassie23   05/05/11 10:11 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! LexieBelle   05/05/11 10:46 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! Cassie23   05/05/11 11:57 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! LexieBelle   05/05/11 12:11 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! LexieBelle   05/05/11 09:04 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! ssmom79   05/05/11 09:07 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! LexieBelle   05/05/11 09:17 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! gr8Dad   05/05/11 12:21 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! gr8Dad   05/04/11 11:27 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 10:10 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! c_jane   05/05/11 08:49 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! gr8Dad   05/04/11 10:16 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 10:39 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 10:39 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! gr8Dad   05/04/11 10:50 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 10:56 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 10:13 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! M5M5   05/04/11 09:51 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 10:02 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! Debi   05/05/11 10:00 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! LexieBelle   05/05/11 10:29 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! Debi   05/06/11 08:18 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! LexieBelle   05/06/11 09:49 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! M5M5   05/05/11 10:57 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! LexieBelle   05/06/11 08:52 AM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! gr8Dad   05/05/11 10:44 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! M5M5   05/04/11 10:11 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 10:21 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! M5M5   05/04/11 11:57 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! gr8Dad   05/04/11 10:28 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! gr8Dad   05/04/11 10:19 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! M5M5   05/04/11 11:52 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! gr8Dad   05/04/11 10:08 PM
. * * Re: Relocation and Legal Action Help!!!!!!!!!!! College_Mom   05/04/11 08:23 PM

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