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      08/13/11 10:32 PM

I was supposed to have 2 weeks of uninterrupted vacation time with my kids. 2 weeks! His was the previous 2 weeks. So, for the first week I tried to take the kids up camping for a few days. We had a great time and my dh helped so I could spent quality time with each one. Going great until I look up on day 2 while fishing on my little fishing boat with my daughter and see ex's car circling the docks and my campsite. Jerk drove over an hour just to track us down. I then spent the next 2 nights waking up in a panic around 3 am because I dreamt he was coming to get me - really fun.

then on to week 2. Hanging out with the kids and had a few days of relaxing and day fishing trips to another lake. Every dam day my ex called and asked the kids to go do something with him. Every day. I spent way too many years trying to make that man happy and jumping and running at his every whim so guess what? I have 3 teens that now do the same thing. So, for a couple of those days, son had to go help dad move. So much for us doing anything else. Then I said no a few times after having them ask me every day if dad could take them somewhere. I try and be nice so I rarely put my foot down but dang it this is beynd old. Then today the kids all left because ex called and asked the kids to go to dinner because his dad was in town. so, I just caved and said yes. But, Im just ticked. really? aside from his trying to constantly reduce his cs. constantly put us down to the kids - he will just never leave us alone. My autistic sons first word to my dh when he walked in tonight was "idiot". He just mirrors all the crap my ex says and it takes days for it to wear off.

Im to the point where I would just like to chew him out in an email. What is he going to do? show a judge how upset I am because he cant leave me alone? Im just sick of it. Should I send an email? what would you do?

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* wwyd? Fishergirl 08/13/11 10:32 PM
. * * Re: wwyd? DedicatedDad   08/13/11 11:30 PM
. * * Re: wwyd? Fishergirl   08/14/11 01:07 AM
. * * Re: wwyd? finz   08/14/11 10:34 PM
. * * Re: wwyd? Fishergirl   08/14/11 11:03 PM
. * * Re: wwyd? ssmom79   08/15/11 09:28 AM
. * * Re: wwyd? Buckeye   08/16/11 06:30 AM
. * * Re: wwyd? elliesmom   08/16/11 01:00 PM

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