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Trying to figure out if daughter is safe
10/11/11 09:58 PM
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Not sure the best forum to get an answer on this but reposting here just in case:
SO here's my story. I have a 3 year old daughter, was never married to the father. Father confirmed his paternity and is listed in the birth ccertificate and pays child support most months though he's skipped a few payments (after 2 years of dodging it all together). Other than that he has no custody or visitation rights because in my state if the unwed father doesn't petition for custody then he doesn't have any. It has been several months since Father has spent time with Daughter (his choice not mine), the last time they saw each other she stayed with him for a few weeks. Well I just found that he has a profile on adultfriendfinder.com in which he is looking to engage in casual sex and swinger type activities, problem I have is that this profile was created during the time that Daughter was staying with him. At the time he lived in a small 1 bedroom apartment and had her bed in his room. He also had claimed that he had been unable to find a babysitter during this time. So needless to say I am extremely concerned that he had people of questionable backgrounds that he found on the internet for a hook up around my daughter, and that he also may have been hosting swinger parties while she was staying in his apartment with very limited privacy. If this occured while she was in the apartment then I don't want her staying overnight with him anymore, however if he only recently started engaging in these activities then I'm fine with it as long as he doesn't bring it around her. Problem being there's no way he's going to tell me the truth about the situation (I've caught him in many lies involving his treatment of our daughter).
My question is, if I were to create a fake profile on this site and use it to ask him when he starting hosting swinger parties and how long he's actually been meeting people off the site, and it turns out this stuff was going on in front of our daughter, could I use those emails in a court case?
I just want to find out for sure that she is safe in his home, and be able to take the appropriate steps if she isn't.
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