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MTmom
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Reged: 08/23/07
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Update

03/13/12 03:06 PM

Hi all. DH's ex won her move away case about 18 months ago and was allowed to take SS11 and SD15 out of state with her boyfriend.

Prior to the move, BM's BF worked for me. His new job was working out of state for one of our direct comptetitors. In court, BM testified that BF was really her 'fiance' and the judge's findings in favor of the move cited the fiances emotional and financial support as one of the reasons he granted the move.

Before the move, DH had his son 50/50. SD15 is not his biological child, but he adopted her after after SS11 was born when BM began accusing her biological father of molesting her. At the time, DH had no reason to doubt BM and believed her, resulting in the adoption. DH has had little to no contact with her after the divorce because BM wouldn't allow it. Also after the divorce, BM contacted her first ex husband and arranged extended, unsupervised visitation periods for him with SD14. DH now doubts that the molestation ever happened.

After the move, DH was given EOW and 8 weeks in the summer with SS11. The judge ordered visitation with SD14 to be 'at SD14's discretion'. BM refuses to allow DH any access to SD14 via phone, internet etc, and refuses all of DH's requests to see the child or have her sports schedules etc.

Since their relocation a year and a half ago, DH has moved heaven and earth to make certian he hasnt missed a single visitaiton period with his son. In addition, he drove almost 500 miles round trip to attend everyone of his football games this year except for one.

Fast forward to today - BM's fiance left her. He called me, and reapplied for his old position. She was living in his home, which he has now sold. He has already moved back to MT and has a new girlfriend already. BM refuses to give DH any information as to what is going on with their children. SS11 is failing 4 courses all of a sudden. DH has no idea where his children are living, or how BM will support them now. SS11 is sullen and withdrawn and refuses to discuss it with DH on weekends. His mother has forbidden him to tell his father anything and it makes him physically ill.

DH doesn't want to put his son thru anymore stress.. but is genuinely worried about what their living situation may be. What options, if any, does he have?

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Update	MTmom	03/13/12 03:06 PM
Re: Update	cpnebraska	03/14/12 11:19 AM
Re: Update	LeAnne	03/13/12 03:55 PM
Re: Update	MTmom	03/13/12 04:01 PM
Re: Update	LeAnne	03/13/12 04:12 PM
Re: Update	MTmom	03/13/12 04:15 PM
Re: Update	LeAnne	03/13/12 04:27 PM
Re: Update	MTmom	03/13/12 05:25 PM
Re: Update	LexieBelle	03/13/12 05:36 PM
Re: Update	MTmom	03/13/12 05:48 PM
Re: Update	elliesmom	03/13/12 06:49 PM
Re: Update	Cassie23	03/13/12 07:06 PM
Re: Update	Cassie23	03/13/12 03:41 PM
Re: Update	MTmom	03/13/12 03:55 PM

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