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Char9
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Help me out here

05/24/12 05:49 AM

before I lose it. I finally told therapist I no longer feel guilty about H and his ex getting divorced. It was bound to happen, I was there at the wrong time. It was not my fault, things were bad before I got involved. One hurdle down. I am however glad I did not go to see SS. BM has been totally clingy, basically ignoring the girls, grandkids, etc. H has been helping out with the gkids, BM and her H stuck like glue to SS all day. From what H told me who was told by SD, everything that BM does for the kids; she expects to be paid back. H took gson to get something to wear (along with SD) b/c SD didn't make him try on the clothes he had. Her fault I know. Millions of moms work, and still find time to shop for their kid for a special event. I bought him dress shoes, as well as the other gson, which oldest said I did NOT have to do. Anywho, BM was losing it, getting all panicky over little things. Chant with me here, I do not care what BM does. I do not care what BM does. LOL I told therapist that I am beginning to doubt it is a good idea for BM and I to talk. That the reason would be for me to clear my head for myself, not for her. To explain my side of the story. SO I can die in peace when the time comes. Will it help? Not so sure now, but maybe.... Just not now. So I'm asking for your help. I want H to be able to talk to me, and to listen without getting angry when BM does something selfish or byotchy. How do I do that???? I know, keep going to therapy. I am NOT my mother, I refuse to be my MOTHER.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Help me out here	Char9	05/24/12 05:49 AM
Re: Help me out here	Gecko	05/24/12 12:37 PM
Re: Help me out here	SRS	05/24/12 04:42 PM
Re: Help me out here	annieo	05/24/12 05:14 PM
Re: Help me out here	elliesmom	05/24/12 05:18 PM
Re: Help me out here	SRS	05/24/12 06:35 AM
Re: Help me out here	Char9	05/24/12 09:04 AM
Re: Help me out here	finz	05/24/12 07:08 PM
Re: Help me out here	elliesmom	05/24/12 09:49 AM
Re: Help me out here	Char9	05/24/12 10:05 AM
Re: Help me out here	SRS	05/24/12 10:12 AM
Re: Help me out here	Char9	05/24/12 10:50 AM

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